How should I handle this?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend of two months and I just started to share each others location. And he was going to be just all this week and said on Tuesday he was going to the gym. Today he told me he lied about that and he has no problem sharing our location with each other just that he's insecure about something and doesn't know howd I react or if I wouldn't like him anymore but on Tuesday he wants to turn off his location. He also reassured he's not cheating and his family and his best friend knows about it he just wants to wait a few months before telling me. I am a bit on edge about this because I feel like he should be comfortable telling things since we are dating, but I do love him and trust him and just because we are dating he doesn't have to tell me everything right now. I just wanted other people's opinions. To be honest I'm thinking maybe he has to go to therapy or there's a health concerns but I can't think of anything else. He’s told me secrets before that I’m literally the only person that knows but he said because I’m the girl he likes and loves he’s afraid how I’d react.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's definitely a weird situation. On one hand, I can kinda understand why he'd be nervous to tell you something personal and doesn't wanna lose you over it. At the same time, lying about where he's going and wanting to turn off his location is super sketch.

A few things I'd say:

- Set a boundary that lying can't happen if he wants your trust.

- Ask him to be fully honest about why he feels he needs to turn his location off. Health issues or therapy would be understandable. Anything else raises red flags.

- Express you care about him but also deserve transparency as his girl. Tell him to just be real with you.

- If he still won't explain fully, that lack of trust will be an issue long-term.

- Pay attention to any other suspicious behavior in coming days too.

Overall trust your gut - if something feels off, don't ignore that. But also give him a chance to come clean since you do care about him. Hopefully he opens up and you can work it out. Keep me posted!