I met a guy abroad nearly 3 years ago and we went out several times. There were so many things I liked about him. He was the best listener I’ve ever spoken to, he was funny, kind, very cute and I felt so comfortable and happy in his company. We had been texting since 2 months ago, so for nearly 3 years. We would tell eachother what’s happening in our lives and share things. I really felt for him and wanted to be with him. 2 months ago I decided that our texting cannot continue because I wanted to focus on finding a man here, added to the fact that I saw a woman love hearting his Facebook posts and felt jealous. I explained that I like him a lot and would be willing to visit his country to see him but that I just feel so bad continuing to text when I know that we’ll never be together in a relationship. He responded saying that he enjoyed texting me. But he said that the distance is a big problem and we cannot build a relationship with it and we have different lives but it doesn’t mean we can’t text eachother. He thinks it isn’t bad for me to text him and I shouldn’t feel guilty about it. He said he’ll respect if I want to stop texting him but I can send him a text whenever I want. 2 months have passed since then and I really miss him. All I want is to be cuddling with him and enjoying his company. I don’t want to move forward or forget him:( I miss him. Do you guys think it’s totally hopeless?
I’m hung up on a guy I met years ago abroad who I think was a perfect match for me?
