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Hi! I want to start off with a little background, my friend ( let’s call him K ) and i have known each other since we were kids (10+ years) and are very close. I met his wife ( let’s call her F ) on their wedding day and since have become pretty good friends with her as well i’d say. Him and his wife have been married for just about 1y and a half, and have been together for almost 2y. Now this might be a little hard to keep up with so bare with me please, my issue is that my mother is good friends with F’s ex coworker and saw they were hiring but when I told my mother I was reluctant to work there because of things F had told me, F’s ex coworker told my mother that F left there due to drama she had caused because her coworkers knew she was married yet she had been sleeping with one of the cooks, along with other personal things. I was completely shocked to hear this because i didn’t think F would do something like this. On the other hand, F and I have never hung out without K present, sure we text every so often but I really don’t know much about her besides what I’ve seen when she’s with K. So i’ve been sitting here, extremely conflicted, because i don’t know whether to tell K or not. I don’t have really any solid evidence so even if I do say anything would he believe me? I would really appreciate any kind of advice.

I have always been pro-prenup. I have two businesses and I'll be damned if someone I no longer get along with decides he's just going to take my businesses and everything I've spent half my life building in a divorce. One of my good friends was in a nasty divorce in which her husband cheated on her with their secretary, and then wanted the entirety of the business they built together with her working 70 hour weeks at one point to sustain it. That was such an eye opener for me what people can do, even if they are the ones at fault in destroying the marriage. We would all like to think we could be civil in a divorce, but nope, of all the ones I've seen happening in person, only about 20% are ever shaking hands at the end.

So what about you, would you absolutely insist on getting a pre-nup or do you think like some do, that a pre-nup is just setting your relationship up for pre-failure

I've been on three dates recently, one of the guys said via message after the date which said "Sorry, your ruined", one guy told me he thinks I'll cheat (I've never cheated and how he can tell that from a date I have no idea) and the last guy got up, went to the toilet and never came back!

So yeah, do you white guys have an issue with dating women that have been with black guys for some reason? I personally don't have a preference, I go for personality but it seems white guys don't date black girls or girls that have been with black guys.