Search Results: getting girls to ask me out

Girls, when she says don't wait for me, should I move on?

This is a long story so hopefully I can pinpoint the details accurately. A girl I don't know from the same university I attended added me on Instagram back in February 2023. We started chatting and more and more our...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, can some help me understand, I just dont understand it?

started dating my best friend of 14 years. she broke up with me due to me being a virgin because sex was super important to her. she refused to take my v-card said she had no interest in doing that. we still hung out a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I reading too far into things with my best friend?

Ok, to start I was homeschooled till 2nd year of high-school. I didn't have any concept of social clues because of this so making friends was and still is kind of hard. I also haven't recently tried to pursue...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I never get asked out by guys. I feel like i’m too loud.. is that why? what am I doing wrong?

I would consider myself good looking. i’m a nice person, funny, i care about my academics and get good grades, im always looking for self improvement, but i feel like i’m loud and annoying. i feel like my volume prevents...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is she interested or am I reading too much into things?

Anonymous

(30-35)

A player not initiating to have sex or sext?

I’m seeing a handsome guy who’s a player. He broke up with his LTR girlfriend two years ago and been playing around since then. It’s been two months and we went on six or seven dates so far. He kisses me when he drops me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should you ask for a woman's number/contact after getting to know each other for a while?

Sp you meet a girl at a store or farmers market and you're able to small talk for a bit and see each other every once or twice a week and its Bern a while and is friendly, would that be afterwards appropriate to ask for...

Buffotine1996

Xper 2 Age: 30

Girls, had a good first date with this girl but when I asked about a second date she didn't give a clear answer?

I've known this girl since February 2023. She started following me on Instagram, didn't know who she was, I'm like I must be getting played why would an attractive girl just add me online. I DM'd her something funny and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

One of my close guy friends talks about girls in front of me yet treats me like his girlfriend at times... does he like me?

For Context: Yesterday, my close girl friends all ditched me after school before the Homecoming Picnic that they said they'd stay for knowing that I would've been all alone with no way to go home because my brother was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

My boyfriend cheated again on me while his dad was dying?

So I've been with my boyfriend now for 2.5 years. We were first friends with benefits, but he wanted to be in a relationship with me. I didn't at first, later we made it official. Like a year ago i found out he was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Had a date with a tonight, just ended, I’ll explain below if you think it went well?

So I met a girl online 9 months ago. Since February we’ve been really busy and it was tough to meet up at certain times because of work or vacation. We’ve chatted a lot via text or phone call. Today was the first day we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you noticed that men who have sisters are much more popular among girls?

I have a brother, who is very popular with women. He goes out and gets asked out by pretty girls all the time. We used to live together and he invited his guy friends over, we used to chat and play for hours. I have...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Family & Friends

How do I ask a girl to hang out, without making her feel like a last resort/2nd best?

I prob. won't be getting together with my other friend this month, because we don't really need to, not until next month anyway. So, I want to get together with my friend but, don't want to be like "hey, my other friend...

Anonymous

(36-45)

OK my out look on life?

I have always asked first that's in dating, work and everything else. so I find it very odd to be telling people on here to ASK if he or she likes you I saw a video clip on here somewhere it was a guy asking a girl out to...

boobliker

Guru Age: 71

Education & Career

Work drama, do I react to it or not?

Here's how it started: I started this job about a few years ago since I was young. When I first started.. there was three people who I worked with. I was singled out but it was because it was mostly because of one person...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I misreading all these signs or is she not interested?

I work with a girl. we’re both bi. She’s stared into my eyes and has complimented me. She’s told me I was pretty before and once at work she said her type was really feminine and beautiful women, which I’m very feminine...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is my ex making himself look so desperate on Instagram after our breakup?

Unhelpful responses will just be removed, please don’t ask why I still care, I’m curious to know what the thought process is behind this. My ex and I recently just broke up. He is a hair stylist and has a public page...

strawberrybaby3

Xper 6 Age: 36

Seeing this guy this guy since August but I’m not comfortable with him staring at other women while with me?

So yesterday would be our fourth or fifth date and he had to get money out for rent and he was reversing back into a car space and there was three girls walking towards the car and he just was staring at them the whole...

Anonymous

(25-29)