My boyfriend cheated again on me while his dad was dying?

[Anonymous]

So I've been with my boyfriend now for 2.5 years. We were first friends with benefits, but he wanted to be in a relationship with me. I didn't at first, later we made it official. Like a year ago i found out he was cheating and trying to get attention from other girls. He was looking for sex hook ups, and was sending and getting nudes and dirty talk. He was on lots of dating apps. He said that it was because we didn't have sex that much. He swears he didn't have sex with anyone, it was just the excitement and him missing sex. Weird thing about it, he has loads of viagra pills. He says he uses it with me and that sometimes he takes the viagra, but we dont end up having sex. He didn't tell me about the pills, i found out about jt. He swore to never cheat on me again and to never hurt me. Couple months ago his dad got diagnosed. And ended up passing away. I was with my boyfriend and his family almost everyday in the hospital to support him and his family. His dad even asked us and my boyfriend said to his dying dad that he loved me and we would be together. After his dad died i spend like a week at his parent house ( he lives at home). And we went to the funeral together. That night i found out on his Phone that he was contacting random girls on fb. Adding them and trying to flirt/talk to them, even in the time his dad was sick and in the hospital and when i came to the hospital to visit his dad and to support my boyfriend. I dont get why he would bring me to his dying dad and let me meet his whole family while he was trying to talk to girls. Im really lost. Atm I've got loads of other worries in my life and i really dont want to have more shit to feel shitty about. And i dont got anybode else that i really trust with the stuff im going through. What should i do. He says he does really love me. Also cause we met as friends with benefits he lied to me about a lot of thibgs in the beginning like his age, origin etc

[Anonymous]

Never ever give a cheater a second chance. They already showed you what kind of person they are. Normal people don’t cheat. They have narcissistic traits where they’re full of themselves and think they’re the only ones who matter, lack empathy and have zero respect for their partner and relationship. He didn’t change last time and won’t change this time either because they can’t change and don’t want to change. There actions stem fromt heir crappy personalities and zero morals. They will lie and say what they think you want to hear, they may even be upset for real but that’s because they got caught and being called out not because they feel bad about what they did. You should have left him the first time he did this and why you haven’t done so yet now even after the second time is wild. You need to dump his as and move on. Never ever talk to him again under any circumstances. And never ever give a cheater a second chance again, no matter if it was you or a previous partner they cheated on. If you yourself have ever cheated on someone then you can ignore my advice because if that’s the case you two are a match made in heaven. You can cheat on each other and stay away from normal people.

[HelpfulWoman]

that you stayed with him in the first place shows you're a fucking idiot frankly. Love isn't something he knows even it came and threw diarrhoea on his face

[Emanon25]

I didn’t read the whole thing but from the title I can tell you that you don’t need that headache, this is a long life and in a couple of years you started complaining, what would you do after having kids with him!

[coachTanthony]

Just give him another chance …. poor guy his dad died for Christ sake

[LemiaOfThunder]

Maybe sit down with an chat with him and expian how you feel

[Celticwolf78]

Time to leave him because he is just going to keep cheating on you

[jahaims]

Have some self respect

[olboyoutlawbradyjr]

Girl, get rid of this POS !!!

[In_Trance]

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