So yesterday would be our fourth or fifth date and he had to get money out for rent and he was reversing back into a car space and there was three girls walking towards the car and he just was staring at them the whole time they were walking by and then when they walk by he turns and asks me for a kiss I was bit hurt over this but I did kiss him.
Am I over reacting here?
Also he likes loads of girls photos on instagram.
This guy is all about me and acts like he’s my boyfriend but just im afraid of getting hurt.
He’s really nice and all but I don’t like him looking at other girls while with me.
Even at dinner he was showing me this girl on instagram and I seen he was liking all her pictures.
I just don’t know how to feel any advice?
Am I over reacting here?
Also he likes loads of girls photos on instagram.
This guy is all about me and acts like he’s my boyfriend but just im afraid of getting hurt.
He’s really nice and all but I don’t like him looking at other girls while with me.
Even at dinner he was showing me this girl on instagram and I seen he was liking all her pictures.
I just don’t know how to feel any advice?
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You're not overreacting, this is casual disrespect. I would be furious if a guy started showing me pictures of another girl while we were out together, wth! He is keeping his options open and is not committed to you. Trust your gut instincts, you felt the need to post this so there is obviously something wrong. Set boundaries, tell him how this makes you feel (by the way, what he is doing is so blatantly rude). Personally, I wouldn't put up with this, you deserve to be treated like a princess. You shouldn't be feeling uncomfortable, you should be quite the opposite. Maybe think twice before continuing this relationship.
Thank you for understanding where I’m coming from.
He’s an absolutely lovely guy but I just noticed this behaviour as of lately.
I feel like I’m not his type tbh as he’s into these girls who wear latex and he’s encouring me to do only fans when I explained I’m not about that and have respect for myself he just seems different from the type of guy I go for I’ve been with guys that would never want another guy to see my private parts
:( This is a red flag, glad you noticed it sooner than later right?
Depends on what your definition of staring is. If a person or persons are walking towards my car I will be looking at them to see if they are any sort of threat. Parking lots are a hotspot for crime and I always practice situational awareness.
3 girls really? And they weren’t walking directly towards the car more near the area
You think 3 girls can't carjack a vehicle or mug you? It doesn't matter that they weren't walking directly towards the vehicle. I am just telling you why I would look at them. Obviously you seem to think crime is something that only happens to other people.
Well it's normal we guys always make back-up plan ready.
Well I may get my back up plan ready and goggles out so
Yes girl always have backup plan with goggles out 😘😘
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