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A lot of people don’t believe in Karma. I myself have gotten more doubtful over years. There is a zero sum aspect to this world that is unfortunately true. Sometimes you have to step on heads to get ahead. You may or may not have a conscience. If you do have one maybe you have to contend with a guilty conscience. But that seems like a minor price to pay for a lot people given the benefits they can get for their actions.

Anyway I notice people who burn the other gender often make bs excuses for actions because they themselves have been burned in the past. It’s a bullshit excuse because the reality you have with is with that one person and it’s just between you and them. You are not “getting back” at the man or woman who burned you by mistreating an unrelated man or woman. You are not getting your “revenge” You are just harming a person who doesn’t deserve it.

I often blame women for this adolescent behavior. But when I’m brutally honest with myself I confess there have been a few isolated incidents I have done this in my own life. It was particularly during my man whore phase in my late 20s/early 30s. I was never a liar. But I would play dumb with women who I knew wanted a relationship when I just wanted to get laid. I felt some mild guilt about it and but I buried that by remembering how many women burned me for being a “nice” guy in my early 20s. I figured it was “my turn” to enjoy the one way benefits.

But that was wrong. Bottom line is this is really just contributing to a “dog eat dog” shitty cycle that’s making things worse and worse for men and women. We look at scoring one for “our team”. In reality when you screw over someone else in dating they might screw over someone else at some point. There is more distrust. More hate. More selfishness. More toxic femininity. More toxic masculinity.

But Mother Nature meant to bound men and women together for companionship and reproduction. It’s NOT a “my team vs. your team”. It’s supposed to be two halves to a whole.

From movies and tv shows all saying that men are trash, that only care about sex, buffoons that need a woman's intuition to guide them to outright sexist laws that punish men. A good example of misandry in society is Amber Heard and Johnny Depp scenario. Amber heard just had to say Depp abused her and inflict a minor bruise to her face in order for people to believe her. Society then turned on Depp and he got cancelled just from word of mouth. It took video/audio evidence + women coming forward to defend him to sway public opinion.

In other instances of harm against women (e. g. rape) even if the guy is proven innocent later, people don't care and will continue to view said male as a rapist. Example, Columbian student, Emma Sulkowicz, accused her friends with benefits of raping her. He was quickly deemed a rapist by his university and kicked out, just base on her word alone. After being found innocent, he received no compensation and was just told to move on with his life; while still being viewed as a rapist by those unaware of the final outcome of the case. Ugly to average men also have their rights infringe upon by just EXISTING. Benjamin Reeves, former CEO of peak industry was accused by a model, Simone Holtznagel of stalking her. He was dragged to court and they needed video evidence to show that everything Simone said was a blatant lie and did not happen.

We also often feminist show blatant misandry both online and in person. Feminist will rejoice and gain pleasure in seeing men suffer, discriminated against or even rejoice at hearing about men dying. There was even a peak point in society, where feminist were actively posting themselves with mugs, that read "male tears" when it comes to male suicides. And no one called them out on it, and it was allowed to trend.