Search Results: a lot of things changing

What shall I do about this affair?

I met a woman through work last year and it was definitely obvious we both found each other attractive. However I had a girlfriend and didn't know her situation. I then broke up with my girlfriend in march. This girl who...

AJ8592

Xper 1 Age: 41

How to end a year relationship when you know you must?

I have been involved in a year long relationship with a girl that is extremely attractive and I suppose it is fair to say that I fell completely in love with her. it began one way - with much adoration from her, such...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

myReview

The "Role Reversal" argument doesn't work because it's exactly what men want

The reality of the treatment that women receive, the condescension, the objectification, is that it is men projecting onto women how they want to be treated. This is for a number of reasons that I plan to get into here...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Why have I been so hurt ever since my boyfriend forgot out anniversary date?

I mixed with emotions lately. Probably because we barely turn 12 years together and a lot of thinking I’ve made. First of all we didn’t do anything for anniversary or he didn’t even mention anything. It really got me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I tell her I don't want to spend anymore money?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and I normally I spend a lot of money on her (I didn't mind at first because I loved her very much), but times have changed a bit. Me and my girlfriend are...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Did I do the right thing by leaving him at a vulnerable time?

My boyfriend has been so distant for months. I know his mental health is heavily affected by the issues in his life and I sympathize with him. I want to be there for him but his behavior is the reason I have started to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do when my boyfriend is being strange?

Basically I was chilling texting my friends and my boyfriend saw me texting and he seemed to look very upset but I smiled at him to see if he would smile back he did but he kept looking at me and my phone with this very...

Anonymous

(18-24)

New boyfriend says "phone checking" and "snooping" are toxic behaviours and won't participate in them, what to do?

I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now, and it's going really well, he's a lot of fun, caring and sensitive, has a good job and own home, takes care of himself, is very easy going. Recently we were talking about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he say I was projecting?

Been talking to this guy on text (he is a friend's friend) who happens to live in another country while I live in his home country. We went on a date (which was the first time we met in person) when he came home during...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my landlord stalking me?

Something doesn’t sit right with me. I moved into this townhouse and there is currently a lot of construction still going on in my development , and the plumbers, electricians and all the people who are on my landlords /...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, What do you think of guys who know how to do a lot of stuff like this?

I'm dating this guyand he knows how to do a lot of stuff. He can fix pipes, change flat tires, change oil, put in doors, and build shelves. He can also defend himself and is over 6 feet and strong and I feel like he can...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to open up EVEN more?

Why do guys keep telling me to open up and withhold stuff because of it? I know I’m open. I express interest in the relationship, I accept the empty promises and even allowed myself to be disappointed and disrespected one...

Diya1014

Xper 5 Age: 26

Let People Walk Out of Your Life

There are a lot of people who believe that any and every situation can be worked out if you choose to stay/fight for a relationship be it with a partner or with family or friends, but this should not always be the case...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Am I trippin or what?

So (34m) boyfriend, does things he is aware I don’t like. I will express that I don’t appreciate something and ask for a specific action from him. Despite knowing that, he continues to do the same behaviors causing me to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be offended that my boyfriend didn’t wanna see me this weekend?

Boyfriend and I have been together for four years. We live an hour away from each other, and we see each other on weekends. We recently got into a pretty big argument where our relationship was on the line one of the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Was I wrong to back off?

My girlfriend broke up with me because we moved to different cities. It was mutually agreed upon, and everything was supposed to be as it was before. She meant a lot to me and was my dearest friend. After some months, she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When my boyfriend worked he used to text me the first couple of months, work has got busier for him at the moment, is this normal?

Been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months now when we first started we used text on and off the first couple of months and now he can go 24 hours without contact, he works for an airline I have had a lot going on the last 15...

Emily1975

Xper 1 Age: 48

My ex called me and told me he feels sorry and feels like he owes me something, why?

I just finished audio call with my ex, he talked to me and said his mom told him I am depressed and he wanted to know how I am, he said deep in his heart he always thinks of me and feels sorry for what he has done, he...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29