I mixed with emotions lately. Probably because we barely turn 12 years together and a lot of thinking I’ve made. First of all we didn’t do anything for anniversary or he didn’t even mention anything. It really got me upset when he didn’t mention anything and I know that he knew and even if he forgot , he never mentioned nothing the following days.
i come from a rocky relationship with him but we been together for that long a lot of things haven’t been accomplished such as ( moving in together ). He has mentioned to move in together but due to covid things changed and we have to save up more money. But just to think he forgot our anniversary makes me think and doubt a lot about our relationship. I’m definitely the one to talk about think and he listens and he never express his feelings so we usually bump heads because I get annoyed telling him how I feel all time. I don't know what should I do. Should I just ignored that he forgot our anniversary? Tell him what he really wants with me? I feel dum asking that question knowing how many n my years we been together.
Why have I been so hurt ever since my boyfriend forgot out anniversary date?
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Twelve years and you aren't living together? Are you familiar with the expression, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
How long do you intend to wait for a guy who doesn't seem interested in marriage or even just living together?
Have you read what you wrote?
This is YOUR -- plural -- anniversary. Shared. Why is it HIS job? You say back and waited for him to do or not do something so you could whine about it.
You realize he could say the exact same thing?
@_Maya_
Yeah I agree. Why did YOU not plan anything. You're mad he didn't but neither did you. So why do you get a pass and he doesn't?
I have no idea if he forgot or ignored it but I wasn’t going to mention it when the last weekend we were just talking about it. I did mention how we didn’t hang out on a Friday ( which was our anniversary) and he said he was tired from work. So that just made me not push it more or mention what day it was. by the way our anniversary was on July 21 and he never mentioned anything. I was upset the whole day and the next and when I saw him he didn’t say anything but knew I was upset about something.
Oh boy 🙎♀️
You could have planned something.
I don't understand why Valentine's day and anniversaries are somehow the guy's responsibility. It's shared.
You just said it: "... I wasn't going to mention it..." exactly. And now, somehow, it's his fault.
Exactly!!! Why is it up to him? You think he could be an anon here bitching about how his partner did nothing? Yeeeep. Ffs right on @snowedin
@_Maya_ thing is that I have for the most part plan things out for us. It was just this time that I was hoping he at least mentioned it
And your training has gained?
Sorry to hear that and no big deal either
What is the purpose of this relationship anyways
How come you two have not make final commitment yet
Do you have kids with him
Which one of you want escape routes to be open?
One of you sounds like my silly ex