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A few nights ago I had a good conversation with a Uber driver on my ride home after listening to some live Christmas music downtown. I honestly was depressed I couldn’t find a girl to go with me. But it’s a personal tradition to listen to Christmas jazz. I am glad I went anyway

Anyway about the conversation. The Uber driver was a younger guy in his 20s who used to run a contractor business but it went under during covid and he drives Ubers full time. He told me he completely given up on dating and doesn’t use social media or dating apps. He has been single for 4 years. He wasn’t some overweight slob either. Not a trouble maker. Decent looking young light skinned African American man. Seems like some girl would appreciate him but he quit.

Anyway we both shared experiences about how we both once out in a lot of effort into dating that was very under-appreciated by women and then quit. There was a study done that over 60% of men under 30 are single now.

However most young women who answered this survey claimed to not be single. Either they are (or a combination of) 1) dating older men 2) in causal relationship they claim “is a relationship” when the man feels differently 3) not in a relationship at all but lying about (virtual “relationships” are complete bs)

Anyway let’s forget about men for a second. How are young women dealing with all of this? They are supposed to be more “free and empowered” but are they really happy in modern times? Statistically young women are reporting very high rates of depression:

https://www.wfxrtv.com/news/health/depression-rates-skyrocket-women-and-young-adults-hit-hardest-gallup-poll/amp/

https://www.statista.com/statistics/252323/major-depressive-episode-among-us-youths-by-gender-since-2004/

My theory is young women have been indoctrinated in a lot of modern feminism brainwashing that brings them a lot of short term benefits but long term misery.

So me and my friend are in this sports social group and this girl started too.
I like this girl and we went out to a football game together ( no a date). This girl is friendly personality and I read the signs wrong. So I text her afterwards and asked if she want to go on a date. She replied that she is not looking to get into a relationship ATM. I said OK no problem and we continued going to group.

That was to 2 months ago. I'm guessing my friend likes her too. The three of us go to football games together and they we always arrive together. My friend said that he is driving pass anyway so just collects her too.

So the other night I was driving pass this girls house and seen his car parked outside and the next day the car was stay there. Now I accepted that she is not interested in me and they can do whatever they like. So I started texting them both to try and see if they would admit that your were spending time together. They lied about spending time with each other. I meet them afterwards and said i was planning on leaving the sports group and do something else. They can be dating or are just good friends too.

My guy is a nice guy but is also a really take the hand/wind up person. And I'm worried he will take the piss and its hard enough seeing them together.

What should I do?