I would say I am a good looking guy (although I'm short), dress well (business casual), I am extroverted and have a lot of guy and girl friends in my life yet dating lately seems so incredibly difficult. I am young, in a city have a good job, am a veteran and can't get a date lol. I use tinder and bumble but tbh I hate that stuff because it's hard to be authentic and real through the phone. This has been eating away at me... Does anyone else relate/what are y'all's experiences as of late?
Yeah dude, I definitely feel you on dating being difficult lately. Seems like it just gets harder every year! A few thoughts:
- Online dating does suck cause it's all surface level. But it's also how a lot of people meet each other now unfortunately. Might just take some patience and sending a lot of messages before you match with someone good.
- Being short does make it tougher out there for sure. But don't let that define you - focus on the awesome stuff about you like your personality, job, friends, hobbies. Those are what will really catch someone's eye.
- Maybe try joining some groups or sports leagues to meet people in real life instead of apps. Shared interests help break the ice and it feels less awkward than cold approaching.
- Don't be too hard on yourself either man. Dating is rough for everyone nowadays with all the options and distractions. As long as you're being your best authentic self, the right person who vibes with you will come along eventually.
Don't lose hope! You sound like a catch so just keep putting yourself out there. Maybe see if your friends can set you up too to meet new people through their social circles. We'll both find someone cool, just gotta weather the storm for now. Keep your head up dude!
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Dating is very hard nowadays. Everyone thinks they can do better so they are consistently looking for that. I struggle with dating as well even though I have my stuff together. I live on my own, have a brand new car, a degree, job that pays well, workout and yet it's still hard. It is what it is at this point. I stopped looking and now am focusing on saving for a house on the beach.
I've never been good at making friends, so you can imagine that dating isn't much better. People would come up to me but my social skills are lacking and then my social anxiety takes over.
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