Im dating a guy who is a really close friend of our family, so i know him since we are kids. Now we somehow started to date, but we live in different countries and he is really shy. We both are terrible in texting but somehow it worked out till now. He really tried to keep contact texting. When we both meet and we are together, everything is soo beautyful. I think he really want a relationship but he's to shy to ask me. I feel that because he gets so nervous just asking me when we can see us again.
BUT here is the problem, i feel like he doesn't care about me or my life. Im scared that he just like me because he dont wanna be alone and im a cool person to hang out with. We spend 2 weeks together and after those weeks i missed him so terrible, but he was so cold, just writing about himself and he never asked me how i feel or what im doing.
If i dont really reply then he ask me how i am but somehow i feel like he doesn't know anything about me. That hurts me a lot because im not that kind of person who talks about myself if nobody ask me. I kinda had the same problem in my previous relationship so im not sure if im just the problem or if he really doesn't care.
He writes about himself (and im not asking him) and im not sure what i should do.
To be honest i dont wanna tell him that it hurts me because we aren't together so i shouldn't have expectations. My feelings are somehow going away now.
He doesn't like phonecalls and i respect that but somehow it disturbs me aswell because it is so difficult to feel close to him when he's not here.
What should i do? We will see us next week maybe but i dont really feel it because im scared about the good bye after a good time and he's texting behaviour after seeing us.
Im really cold rigth now, dont text him so much but he is texting me, sending me reels, trying to keep in contact. But again, its just about him.
