Girls, does she still want me you think or trying to be nice and get rid of me?

[plucz123]

I've been talking to this girl for like 3 months now and in the beginning we talked dirty and was easier to hang out whatever at first she didn't mean much to me but over time i grew feelings for her. she had some alcholol and drug problems but she wasn't a crack head or anything just like to party and one night we hung out and she was really drunk and i had to drive her home. the day after she kept saying that i dont like her now and that i think she is crazy because i seen her ridiculously drunk but i told her no i dont at all. she even deleted me off snapchat but not blocked neither on instagram. so i messaged her on instagram telling her i still liked her, so we aggreed to add each other on snapchat again. but after that day she was never really the same to me. she is trying to heal and i get that but she does go out once and a while i know that and i dont care if she has fun. but it hasn't been really the same because she is always "busy" or "tired" . she says she doesn't want anything right now of course because she is trying to heal and i get that. i asked her if she still wanted to hook up and she said ya probably. she looks at all my snapchat stories but she's been dry lately.

what do i do?
stop messaging her, stop viewing her stories and see how she reacts? or ride the wave? im confused.

Updates

+1 y

she's stated in the past being interested and liking me as well.

[SueShe]

You should let go of her for a while and let her get a clear head.

She is obviously confused because she has major issues to address at once. If you "interfere" with her issues by being constantly watching her stories, you only achieve that she will be unable to put all her attention on the important issues in her life.

Personally, I would cut all social media ties with her because those social media are actually poison. Let her make the first move when she is sober and off the drugs. You can still meet casually but don't mention any feelings because it will only make things worse for her.

Just let her know you are there if she needs you but the first move has to come from her.

[plucz123]

"If you "interfere" with her issues by being constantly watching her stories"

I was already thinking of not looking at her stories to see how she would react and not reply to any snap pics (that are random and not exactly meant for me, but they are sent to me) but looking at her stories you think makes a big difference for her personally?

[SueShe]

I am not a social media expert because I don't have any (besides GaG) and the entire follow/unfollow, block/unblock issue is childish at best.

If you always looked at her stories and that you suddenly don't, she will notice, provided she does care who looks at them. However, if you have 1,000 people usually looking at them and that 1 does not, she is not likely going to notice.

If feelings are involved, then yes, it may make a difference to her that you don't read her stories.

[plucz123]

okay thanks. i appreciate it :)