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Guy on a date rated me and told me what my "league" was. Is this rude?

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Is this rude? I went on a tinder date the other day. We went for a drink at this bar. The guy showed up and I could tell he was pretty nervous. As we talked (it was quite awkward conversation already) he then started whipping out his phone and said "but you know that you're an 8/10 right? So you should be dating other 8's, 7's, 9's, but anything below or above that range would be out of your reach." I was gobsmacked and didn't know what to say, I didn't ask for his opinion on my looks, and THEN he showed me a picture of a half-naked girl in lingerie on his phone and said "that's a 10/10 girl right there." Then he said "but don't worry, 8/10 is good enough. It's equivalent to a B+ in school. Most guys would sleep with you."

WTF just happened on that date? Is that normal for a guy to say that on a first date?

Guy on a date rated me and told me what my "league" was. Is this rude?
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