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I have one co worker been fooled by guys. So basically just sex and ghosted her.
she would constantly telling people what did he do, just everything about him.
How he looks , what s his favourite. What he said.
after a while she moved to another guy house and soon they r tgt.
now she just keep talking about him 24 /7

i dont mind or care about her private life but she would make really bad comments on women.
like women around her. like co worker s appearance and being single

for example a recent news.
a guy cheated on his 2years wife. She would say oh the girl isn't pretty anymore. That s why.
Guy being assured of sexual assault, she would say oh money conflict or argument between girlfriend and boyfriend.

she also has strong hate on women who date rich men only.

She doesn't mind spending money and pay for the guys dinner although she s just a general clerk.

i ve been stressed hearing all her shitty comment. And how she would keep a male cat instead of female cat. This is just disgusting. And i m just sitting quite close to her.

a couple months ago i got super super drunk at like 6pm and ended up in public all wasted. the cops were called on me and they picked me up. i spent the night in the sobering cell thing, and got a contravention of just 35 euros. It was in a little village in the country side. i dont drink often, like only a couple times a year. I didn't plan on getting drunk like that, or even going outside like that either.

half of my family thinks since i'm young (23) it's bad but it's not a huge deal, like it's something that can still happen at my age. and that as long as i learn my lesson and are careful to not drink so much like that especially alone, it's fine. The other half thinks it's really bad and i can't be left alone because of it. so now i'm being treated like a baby by those people for that one incident.

what do you guys think. is it super severe and warrents a 23yo being more controlled and babysat to prevent them redoing that or is it not that grave and they're old enough to learn from their mistakes alone?