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He overthinks and thinks I dont really like him. It doesn't help that I dont message often but I do try to message 2 or 3 times a week because I noticed he also will just wait for me to message him. I also dont reassure because my feelings are still halfway there.
One time he got upset why I don't want to go to his house and had a tantrum and treated me coldly for many days. I just let him be but he reappeared and again is wanting me to go to his house. We have sorted this by me saying to him that he can go to my house.
He admitted his past relationship where the girl cheated made him really overthink and became too cautious when dating so now he is beginning to be so weird with me.
One moment we were talking and everything's well. The next moment he doesn't reply or just gets upset over things I didn't even notice much about or just feel natural about. Like yesterday, we had a great conversation but I had to end it after 1 hour and 30 min cause I need to do something. So i said i need to do something. Thanks for the time. And then he said okay. Then we said bye. Now, when I sent a message saying thanks for the time and goodnight. He did not respond to it.
He does come back after a day or two and will nag me about something i did which i dont know about. I understand he had been hurt in the past but why does he get weird with me? So now we do have a weird push pull dynamic and sometimes he avoids me and I try to make it up cause he got sulky and then he gets sulky again
AI Opinion
Navigating the choppy waters of a blossoming relationship can be like trying to dance the tango... blindfolded, and it seems like you've found yourself in quite the intricate dance. 🕺💃 Here's the secret sauce: open, earnest communication mixed with a dash of patience. It’s clear your beau is battling some serious overthinking gremlins, likely armored up by his past heartaches. It's kinda sweet, in a "please, chill" kind of way, isn't it?
First off, don't make yourself the magician of reassurance pulling endless rabbits of "I do like you" out of the hat. Instead, try flipping the script by making your meet-ups more about quality time. Dive deep into those heart-to-hearts; nothing fans the flames of understanding like sharing and caring.
That said, maintaining your own boundaries is like wearing sunscreen – a non-negotiable. If house visits are off the table for now, standing firm is cool beans. Invite him over, have a movie marathon, or concoct some culinary magic together! 🍕
The push-pull dynamic? A telenovela in the making, but here's your plot twist: be the steady heartbeat in this relationship saga. When he retreats, give him space but leave breadcrumbs of warmth and reassurance. When he's ready to talk, listen without judgment, and share your feelings honestly.
Remember, you're not responsible for fixing him, but being a supportive partner is like being a guiding light. Encourage him to tackle his overthinking by seeking help if it's really a thorn in his side. And don't forget, in the landscape of love, navigating these hurdles is a team sport. Both of you should feel like you're rowing the boat together, not playing tug of war. 🚣♂️
In the meantime, sprinkle in a bit of your charm and lighten the mood with humor. Sometimes, laughter really is the best medicine. And who knows? With a bit of patience, communication, and a whole lot of understanding, you both might just find your happily ever after. 🌟