Boyfriend overthinks everything that I do?

[mangosmall]

I have been with my boyfriend for a few months and he's away at military training, due to COVID he's really stressed deciding whether to stay or leave. We had an argument yesterday because he kept cutting me off on a phone call saying 'sorry busy' and I didn't say anything until he's done it three times. I didn't have a go at him, I just asked for next time if he could just say he can't talk rather than hanging up on me because I find it upsetting. He would also say he would call and wouldn't call. He then made it out as if I was trying to make him feel bad or pick on him when I wasn't.

Anyway, today I can tell he's angry/not in a great mood as he is stressed about the situation so I just said 'have a good sleep and here if you need to talk'. Then he started having a go at me and saying 'why are you being like this' etc etc... and I explained I was just trying to give him space as he's clearly upset. Then he said 'Id prefer if you speak nicer to me and talk normally'. So I tried to change the subject and he kept mentioning it. He's stopped talking about it now but I really don't like this side to him at all. I feel like I am walking on egg shells here, what do you think?

[Avicenna]

Just be patient with him

[mangosmall]

Hmmm I am trying too but he snapped at me again last night about it and he's taking his mood out on me