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So my roommate’s bf’s best friend is super attractive and checks off a lot of my boxes personality & life desires wise. I very much want to pursue something with him, but I’m super nervous since I’m in my mid/late 20s & have only ever had 1 boyfriend (who I dated off & on for a few months at a time for a few years, v toxic), he’s 1.5 years younger than me & has only ever had 1 girlfriend (only dated her for a couple months), & we’re also in a friend group together. I have more hookup experience than him, but I don’t really have a lot of dating experience, especially not healthy dating experience. The few times I have dated in the past, I’ve been told that I’m too clingy or move too fast to be serious bc I’m very touchy when I like someone. My love language is physical touch & sex is how I express a lot of affection, & sex early on doesn’t mean I’m not trying to be serious, it means I’m interested in you. If I can’t express myself in that way, then we’re not compatible.

He invited me over to his place the other night to watch some tv, & I went over & we drank some wine. I was holding his hand, put my head on his shoulder, cuddled up next to him, etc. I was expecting him to make the next move if he was interested in doing so. I’m very nervous about making all the physical moves bc I’ve been told in the past that I’m too cuddly & too physical. Well, he has even less experience than me & I don’t think he really knows how or when to move it to the next level. Long story short, I ended up leaving the other night without so much as a kiss from him, despite me being very cuddly. He seemed receptive to me touching him and when I even asked if I was doing too much he told me no, he just didn’t make a move to move things forward.

Is he uninterested & just wanting the attention? Or does it seem like he’s nervous too?

My boyfriends older brother is always meddling in his business and is always concerned with what we’re doing…

he keeps asking why I haven’t moved in with his younger brother yet, and that he hopes I’m putting my family before him and that I shouldn’t be one of his priorities…. then he proceeded to say his bro is a jerk and that he doesn’t care about family and why I live his younger bro so much…. he then proceeded to say that I should only be his priority only if I move in

was this meddling and an asshole thing to say to me knowing that me and his younger bro are in a serious relationship?
secondly I’m not yet ready to move in with my bf…. his bro has been pushing since last summer when we were only 6 months into dating

My boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship dating over a year now and we’ve spoken about moving in together later on - just the two of us no parents.

My mom invited us over for lunch on Christmas Day and she “suggested” and was telling my boyfriend that he could rent out his condo and come live with me and my mom later on and that he won’t hve to work if he did that, but he doesn’t want to and my mom kept pushing the subject and said this to him when I told her not to because living arrangements are between me and my boyfriend.

my boyfriend got very pissed and offended because he doesn’t like the idea and my mom kept pushing the subject…I made it clear to him and reassured him that I spoke to my mom about it that it’s not happening and that we’re going to be living ourselves later on…

was my boyfriend right to be offended about the fact that she told him to rent his condo and not have to work? Or is he being unreasonable?