I need some serious advice on how to handle this situation?

[Anonymous]

• I am a very generous person. I feel that aspect is easily manipulated and taken advantage of. I had savings from after dad passed of over 20k. Now I am at nothing. I've been living with my boyfriend for two years and we signed a lease for another two. All that money in my savings is all gone now. From every other month my boyfriend not having money for rent, to his car breaking down, to registering his new car... I helped him with it all. He recently needed new tires. His father in another state paid $800 for it. My boyfriend grandfather just passed away before his health was declining. He did everything to make sure his grandfather had a happy life. That made him not work for 3 weeks because of his depression. He knew his car insurance was passed due and canceling today and was willing to let it slide. So, I went out and worked for a few hours to help him pay it. He is waiting for his grandfather's life insurance to get 1.4k to pay his half of next months rent. If I didn't pay that insurance he would have no car. We both work Uber. But he hates ubering now. When he has money he wants to purchase firearms! Barely any contribution to food or utilities. He is studying at an online school but it's for a year and so do I. He has so much debt for E-ZPass, taxes and everything. He just broke his fob too after paying the ins. So that's another hundred dollars. I feel like I'm working nonstop as he is just using everything I pay for. He stopped contributing and asks people for money all the time. He didn't even call his grandfather's friends yet to tell them he passed away so they can prep for the funeral service. What can I do to help ease his tension. Now I feel like we are both broke, his fob is broken and can't drive anywhere, his grandfather passed away and he is falling into a pit of depression. He even has bleeding ulcers that has been bothering him 4 months! Please help us

[molonski2]

I'm sorry hun , but this guy is just no good , no good at all , completely unrealistic , you just have to get him out of your life , hit him up for 10k when he gets the life insurance , break the lease and get rid of this toxic fool , association is everything..

" Lie down with dogs... "

[Marked_Man]

I'm sorry, but it seems like your boyfriend is a user. Some people are givers and some are users and givers are usually manipulated by users. It's a warning to you to not let this continue and get away from someone like that. When he is through using you, he'll find someone else guaranteed. Kind hearted people should be with other kind hearted people who will appreciate it.

[Guy13]

Sorry to hear that you are in this situationship. It seems like the best thing to do is get out from under this and move on is all I can say

[Jdjfjcjj]

So the advice I would give goes out to all women and that would be follow your biological imperative to seek out a man who actually offers something rather than trying waste time trying to teach a man how to be a man.

[LiamSawyer]

He needs to grow up and take responsibility for his own life and work hard to pay his own way. As long as people cater to him he'll never mature and grow up.