Flipped like a switch?

[Hargume]

Met a girl at work and eventually after started catching feelings for her. We have so much in common that it’s hard to fathom. Initially she would look at me with flirty bedroom eyes and even though that eventually subsided, she still flirted, teased, and initiated touch. Eventually she asked me for my number and added me on social media. I didn't initiate anything because she had a boyfriend, but as soon as they broke up, she approached me, rubbed her entire body up against mine and proclaimed "Im single". I'm certain she's always had an idea about how I feel about her and wonder if this her way of asking me to ask me out. I hesitated because I felt like it was too soon, but soon after she invited me for a drink. When that day came she flaked out and made a poor excuse about "running errands". This is when things flipped suddenly. She became distant, detached, cold, uninterested, and standoffish. At the same time she started approaching another guy. She was all over him (or so it seems). Everything she once was suddenly changed. She was always serious and unresponsive. A girl that once had absolutely no sense of personal space now stood a football field away from me. I naturally panicked and began trying hard to win her back (to no avail and only making things worse). I decided to hug her each time we said goodbye but every single hug was initiated by me. Eventually she started hugging the other guy (she initiated) and it was on that day that I called her out on many things. At the end of that conversation I reached over for a hug and she reluctantly gave me one which followed her saying "Im not affectionate…I don't do hugs" to which I responded "Yeah you are…. just not with me"….. I still have feelings for her and wish I could just forget her but it's easier said than done. I'm just confused as to what happened and where everything went wrong…

[Guy13]

If she does for you then she will do it to you. You are not the only scratching post in your zip code. 🐈 🍆 🐈‍⬛