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go ahead. the burden of proof is on you.

I don’t have an issue with my girlfriend being fat. Actually, I have a fat girl fetish. Every time I see a fat girl with giant boobs my hormones spike out of control. Which is the exact reason I started dating my girlfriend in the first place.

Within the last year her she’s just gained too much weight. Like way TOO MUCH!!! She’s 5”4” and 300 pounds, and her knees are constantly hurting because she’s too heavy. I usually don’t like talking to my girlfriends about their weight but I can’t be silent about this situation.

I used to be a paramedic, I’ve seen so many people her size instantly dead from heart attacks. Her own father died from a heart attack from being over weight.

I tried multiple times talking to her about her weight. I’ve tried to work with her and come up with a fitness & diet plan for her. Every time I try she argues with me and makes up dumb excuses. She says “I enjoy eating food, and I don’t have energy to work out”. Last night, I had to talk to her more serious than usual out of concern because I’m really worried. She yelled at me and hung up.

I’ve explained to her that I’m still very attracted to her and that I have lots of fun with her body in the bedroom. And that I’m only wanting her to loose weight because I want her to live, but. No matter how I try to convince her, she’ll just fight back and break down crying. What do I do? Do I just sit here and let her eat herself to death?

How did life begin?

Science thinks that some simple chemicals somehow became more complex chemicals that eventually became cells, etc. There is a problem here regarding where the energy to power all these chemical reactions came from since there was no friendly power company involved as far as we know - Not even any walls or wall outlets or generators.

Creation asserts that God simply... uh... created man. No real mention of how he did that and with what, save Eve's rib. A little too simple considering the complexity of humans. The simplicity has led to a lot of scepticism. A lack of energy is the least of the issues here.

A variant of Creationism called Intelligent design says that the designer was actually sort of a biochemist and anatomist, and he put all this... uh... stuff together and built people. No real evidence for that but the ID people assert that there had to be an intelligent designer because people are so complex. Not convincing but not clearly wrong. Begs the question of who was the intelligent designer? Maybe God? What were the raw materials and where did the designer get them and how did he put them together? No answer for this as yet.

I know most people are somewhere near the center but if I make that an option on its own the poll won't work.
Lets find out the political leanings of the website and how strong the divide is between girls and guys. No matter how little or extreme, are you left or right wing?

Asking this anonymously so that anyone can participate, otherwise the result may be skewed by my followers / blockers.
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Politically active: You actively participate in politics. For example, you deliberately watch political news. You are a member of an advocacy group. You frequent the politics section of this website. You try to convince others of your political opinion, etc.

Politically passive: You aren't interested in politics, but if you had to vote you expect to vote for these kinds of politics.

In case it matters and there is an extreme difference in some countries between what the left wing and right wing do, I am asking this question from the American perspective of what the words mean. I know there are many sub groups, but I chose to keep it simple.