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I find that so weird. It’s none of your business if someone wants to change their name just how some change their hair color or their body shape or their eyelashes or their eyebrows or their nick names or their over all style or personality because they want to be happier or for whatever reason it’s their life not yours 🤡

what’s wrong with people who feel so bothered about someone else changing their name? Some are even angry about it or just annoyed

your reaction alone is absurd. You do you and what we you feel makes you better and feel better for yourself and stop getting bothered about what other decide to change in themselves

are you one of those people? Or do you know someone like that?

I stopped going to the gym and have been eating a lot of ice cream. 😧😬💀 Is it horrible?

And no I’m not trying to glorify unhealthy lifestyle or to make fat acceptable etc.

I know it’s not good and I don’t plan to stay this way. I also don’t get offended.

I just want a sense of reality if people actually find me attractive how I look now or mostly not at all. Really am just curious. How difficult is it to find a partner looking how I look now.

I watched a couple of videos on YouTube and as a curious young woman I found a coupla comments which makes me question everything. I witnessed a female commentator arguing with a male commenter but I chose not to add fuel to the fire therefore leaving them alone. Is it true nerdy good girls who are average looking and has a kind heart not able to get more potential mates compared to a party girl who’s conventionally pretty but has unrealistic standards. She explicitly state men can have standards when it comes to women but when women have standards she called a gold digger, etc. Then he fought back ‘women like you said men’s height are a requirement but when we want women who are not fat y’all get mad.’ As for me I noticed there are some nerdy good girls able to get quality men who don’t care about looks. I keep my standards realistic and when it comes to height I prefer a guy to be around 2cm taller than me rather than 6-7 feet tall. He doesn’t need to be rich and he doesn’t need to be super hot. Thing is I’m afraid of meeting new people and avoid every volunteer and public meeting spaces hence why I’m still single because I’m too scared to have more friends. They say the only way to get a romantic partner is to meet new people but I refuse to do that hence why I’m single because I find single is easier and I hate changing my routines.

Honestly is it true women can’t have standards whereas men can have standards in society or am I wrong?