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i was at an event in london on Monday with around 50-100 people around me. it was very messy and very strict on where you could go. we were in a small huddle under a roof.

last time i was at one of these events i was being threateneed god knows what just because i needed to be with people i knew because i wasn't well and my flight had got cancelled. they were accusing me of q jumping when i wasn't, i just couldnt be on my own as mum had to go to the hotel to put our luggage in. they were horrible to me and it left me shaken at the time.

i ignored the person who behaved like that this time even though i had to stand near him. he's quite a heafty person despite being blind (or so he says) he even tried to push into my spot despite him being there all day (i only got there at like an hour before the event started) so at one point or another i had ended up in his little spot by accident, i was given permission by someone else to go over to them i wouldn't have done it otherwise

later on nearly the time it had finished i was standing behind someone (probably the same heigh/build/skin colour as him) and i felt the persons elbow hit my nose. it caused pain and at the time my neck was twitching like mad. i was shaking and had to call 111 and get first aid from our hotel as it hurt the back of my head quite bad. there was no blood thankgod and i hadn't fallen (which ieasily couldve due to my vertigo) i couldnt see the persons face who did it. i want to report it or get the venue to check it out to see if it was an accident/done on purpose. how could someone not know that theyd elbowed into someone?

Long story short, my ex didn't believe our daughter is his, dna test came back and proved it. We were still being respectful to each other during the whole time but barely talked since he didn't want to get involved until a dna test.

Now he wants to be involved which I appreciate for our daughter.

At 7 months pregnant I moved back home (from us to Europe) to support my daughter and make the best life possible for her having no support from him. I informed him about everything.

Its been almost 2 years since we broke up , saw each other and maybe talked like 5 or 6 times... until recently when the dna came back.

He wants to come out here and spend time with his daughter which I am actually happy that her father wants to be involved. We live in a one bedroom apartment and he wants to stay with us. I told him I would like him to get a Hotel room. we had barely any contact for 2 years I just dont feel comfortable with him staying here. He can spend as much time as he wants over here but I would appreciate him not to permanently stay and have a room to get back to. We never lived together and I just kinda like having our own little place for my daughter and I.

He got all mad at me saying he is already spending a lot on plane tickets and he can't afford a hotel as well. He says I would be keeping him from his daughter as he already lost so much time. I dont want to stand between them but dont want to compromise our safe space for a man I haven't seen in 2 years.