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She told me because I have manners I’m soft?
I was recently dating someone and was told that how I interact with strangers is a turn off and that she thinks it’s because I’m soft. When I order food I always say may I have etc. I say thank you I appreciate it. If I’m...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to not get insecure when people stare at me?
I have had appearance anxiety for a long time. I grew up in a very critical family, among judgmental relatives who constantly made comments on my appearance. So, as a teenager I was constantly told that I need to be less...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it weird if a woman text you months after you hung out she saw the class instructor?
I invited this girl out in a group to a class, we had an instructor that really all they did was instruct the class. She texted me months later while I’m at work saying how have I been doing and that the instructor...
BigTimer
Xper 6 Age: 36 Can’t tell if he’s interested or just friendly?
One day he seemed very flirty w/me then next he’s just being a pal. We’re in the same theater organization (I’m new). Anyways, when we had to move stuff from the temp theater where we did our recent play, can’t tell if he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I overthinking or does my boyfriends best friend like me?
So... before my boyfriend and I started dating 2 years ago, I was on tinder. I matched with a guy, lets call Jack. Jack and I match. We never chatted or anything but we matched. And it wasn't just on tinder jt was the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he joking or not?
https://www.youtube.com/embed/rj38B4RcSEM
OddBeMe
Master Age: 42 How to deal with mean people who comment on your looks as an adult?
There's a guy at my university who keeps bullying me. It started with him making fun of my appearance out of nowhere. I remember I was getting in and he was sitting in the stairs leading to our classroom with a guy and a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girls do you start flirting with guys if your relationship starts slowly going south?
I have this co-worker who’s in a relationship. Her and I filter occasionally text about an activity we both enjoy (short nothing much). Lately she been texting more joking with each other. I like her but I’m not a home...
Anonymous
(36-45) Friends with benefits where is the silver lining? Or any lining?
So I recently got this friends with benefits. I moved to a new town. He said he didn’t want anything. He wants his peace. I’m on the same page. Peace and stacking up. But I’m getting mixed signals. We text here and there...
Anonymous
(30-35) I think I am in love with a sociopath?
Ok, so my girlfriend checks a lot of traits for a sociopath, and it’s freaking creepy, but at the same time, I'm in love with her. I'm not sure if she knows she's one… I could be wrong, but she basically makes up what a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do people use cigarettes and let themselves get addicted?
If you are depressed, you could watch a youtube video of pandas online, you could meditate, you could pray, you could take a walk by the lake, you could visit a free indoor garden, you could use online software to...
How come men get away with EVERYTHING?
they excuse rape and making ”dirty jokes” to literal kids. what the actual fuck is wrong with y'all. ”male loneliness epidemic” is such fucking bs when y'all act like this. there's no good men left.
chocolatetwopointo
Xper 7 Age: 18 Anonymous
(30-35) 
Was there an adult joke or pop culture reference that went over your head in a show you liked as a kid?
I was watching the Rugrats “Home Movies” episode and one of the characters made a phone call to Dr. Kervorkian ( an infamous doctor who did assisted s*icides) while they were watching boring home movies.
How can men tell after talking on the phone or via text IN ONE DAY or a few hours, that I’m not street smart and would fall for “I want to marry you”?
This happened multiple times. And no it wasn’t them joking. They would keep taking marriage plans even after saying it the first day. One of the guys who did this , I was very into. So I get how he probably saw that I was...
Iotititi
Xper 1 Age: 28 How to respond to my family underestimating me?
I live with my parents and it's pretty common in Asia where in many places grown up children aren't allowed to live alone, especially women. Now the issue is that I'm my patents' youngest child, I've an elder brother....
Anonymous
(18-24) My family complains that I spend every weekend with my best friend so is it bad that I haven’t seen my family in a while?
Most weekends I’m at my best friends house. They’ve been talking me to different places that I’ve never been to, doing different things and I’ve been enjoying them. My dad said that’s good I’m spending more time out of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Growing feelings for a nurse?
I spent a whole day with a beautiful nurse helping her take care of my special needs uncle. Throughout that day we joked and laughed and And talked. I was already attracted to her the moment she introduced to herself but...
Anonymous
(30-35) Has anyone ever overheard their partner saying something hurtful? I overheard my girlfriend talking about my size how do I even bring this up?
She was on the phone with a male friend and I heard her making jokes about my size and saying things that weren’t even true. It was humiliating and really hurtful, especially since I’ve never felt insecure about it...
Anonymous
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