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Secure: If you feel confident in your relationships, your attachment style is probably secure. You are comfortable being independent and giving your partner space. But you also ask for support when you need it and provide support when they ask for it.

Preoccupied (anxious/ambivalent): If you spend a lot of time worrying about your relationship, your attachment style may be preoccupied. You may fear being alone or being abandoned by your partner. You crave reassurance about your relationship.

Dismissive (avoidant): If you avoid emotional intimacy, you may have a dismissive attachment style. You may find yourself in and out of romantic relationships because you won’t let those relationships get too serious.

Fearful (disorganized): If your caregivers displayed scary behavior — like abuse, neglect, or high anxiety — you may develop a fearful attachment style. With a fearful style, you may want to be close to people and avoid relationships, all at the same time.

We have to worry about getting used for sex or getting string along, someone wasting our time, etc.
I'm now trying to place myself on a man's shoes. I'm guessing it must be hard always being brave enough to ask her out and getting a successful answer if lucky. Assuming the guy wants a long-term commitment, the steps includes asking her out on a date, then asking her to be your girlfriend, asking her to move in with you or proposing to her.

Unfortunately she can reject you on any of those steps, whether it was just for a date or for a major advancement. So overall do guys have it just as hard as girl?

As a 25 year-old woman, I've never in my life felt any attraction towards anyone (man or woman). I'm not just asexual but aromantic too. I feel little to no romantic feelings but no sexual attraction at all.

Seeing how both relationships and marriages have been ruined, is being asexual a blessing after all? After all, I don't have to worry about falling in love with Mr Wrong nor wasting my time nor being string along, etc. Would you call that a blessing?