When I get asked why I hate cheaters so much, it's literally because cheating is abuse, it's just as bad as beating your spouse..
Cheating, in my opinion, is abuse.
If your partner cheated, that's abusive. I bet they have lied, deceived, manipulated, and gaslighted you. Your partner hid the affair from you or blindsided you one day.
Part of you wants to stay with them because of false "memories." The other half, the logical half, wants out. To be free.
Ohhh.. but what about the children, you cry?
I am sure they would prefer to be in a love-filled relationship not built on lies. If you stay, you are teaching your children that someone can completely disrespect you, and you stay. You are teaching them to disrespect future partners or accept disrespect because "it isn't that bad."
Yes, she had other abusive issues as well. However, the thought of not worrying about someone cheating on me feels liberating. If you are married and afraid, it's okay to leave. Your kids will recover. Focus on building a strong support system, therapy, and who you are.
And no this has nothing to do with my current situation and my wife. It has to do with two of my ex's and the absolute ton of questions I see on here from worthless piece of shit cheaters that want sympathy. Fuck off.
Cheating, in my opinion, is abuse.
If your partner cheated, that's abusive. I bet they have lied, deceived, manipulated, and gaslighted you. Your partner hid the affair from you or blindsided you one day.
Part of you wants to stay with them because of false "memories." The other half, the logical half, wants out. To be free.
Ohhh.. but what about the children, you cry?
I am sure they would prefer to be in a love-filled relationship not built on lies. If you stay, you are teaching your children that someone can completely disrespect you, and you stay. You are teaching them to disrespect future partners or accept disrespect because "it isn't that bad."
Yes, she had other abusive issues as well. However, the thought of not worrying about someone cheating on me feels liberating. If you are married and afraid, it's okay to leave. Your kids will recover. Focus on building a strong support system, therapy, and who you are.
And no this has nothing to do with my current situation and my wife. It has to do with two of my ex's and the absolute ton of questions I see on here from worthless piece of shit cheaters that want sympathy. Fuck off.
