If this is my 3rd miscarriage in my engagement, is it likely I'm infertile?

[Anonymous]

I had miscarried in two other past relationships long ago too but didn't think too much back then (after all I was just 19 and 21 years old at the time). It was either that or I just simply didn't get pregnant. Now that I'm engaged, it keeps happening and I'm 29... this worries me.

We've been engaged for 8 months now and this is my 3rd miscarriage with him. I've already set up my appointment with the gyn for Thursday morning. I'm nervous though. Hopefully it's not something bad. Is it likely me with the issues and that I'm infertile?

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Note: Those 2 past bfs whom I had a miscarriage with are already with someone else and have kids. They were able to get other women pregnant.

[dustybiker]

You won’t know until you see a doctor. It’s easy to worry but it does nothing for you. Take a deep breath and try to put the appointment out of your mind. Do something nice for yourself to keep your mind busy.

[Asker]

I have stage 3 moderate endometriosis (that explains why I had to be on Ibuprofene whenever I had a very painful period) and need surgery to remove some of the tissue so I can improve my fertility.

[dustybiker]

Ah, I hear the procedures are reasonably comfortable and work well. I know woman who have used the cold version.

[JustinTheGreat]

I don’t think saying you’re infertile is the right word because you’re able to get pregnant. There are definitely other factors that are affecting your ability to keep the pregnancies though.

I’m not a doctor of course so I wouldn’t take my opinion as fact.
I’ve heard stories of people finally having a miracle baby after many miscarriages so i wouldn’t lose all hope

[Asker]

I have stage 3 moderate endometriosis (that explains why I had to be on Ibuprofene whenever I had a very painful period) and need surgery to remove some of the tissue so I can improve my fertility.

[TenkRealist]

Lol I wonder how your husband feels that you were already impregnated by two other men and he's third fiddle?

[Asker]

He never really asked about my past relationship nor wanted to know. I never asked for his either. In the beginning he said he only wants the present time and our current goals. So if he doesn't ask, I guess there is no point in sharing that detail.

[TenkRealist]

Lol. So he's a cuck. Personally, I wouldn't consider marrying a woman this ran over but yeah. Well he chose you. Good for him. I doubt he had a clean past either but yeah.

[Asker]

This has nothing to do with my concern. I can't seem to have a successful pregnancy. That's my main issue. This can't be normal.

[TenkRealist]

Have you had any terrible sexual experiences or done anything to anyone terrible sexually or taken pills to have an abortion before?

[Asker]

None of it

[TenkRealist]

Have you ever cheated on any of your partners?

[Asker]

I haven't done anything. No to all of that. I don't know why I can't ever carry a baby full term. It always ends in an early miscarriage right before the 20th week.

[TenkRealist]

Do you / have you dabbled in anything demonic? Yoga, horoscope, magick, witchcraft, satanism, eastern spirituality, ouja boards any of that?

[Asker]

Ok you got me there. I've played the Ouija board out of curiosity with 3 friends. We were 12 years-old at the time, asking questions about our future. Now that I remembered, we asked ''At what age will I have my first child''. It said 18 for one my friends, 23 for another one and ''not you'' for me. That seemed weird but we continue playing it. We stopped playing with it when one of my friends started complaining about feeling being watched, nightmares or lights turning out suddenly.
Is that it?

[Asker]

I never really had an supernatural encounter though. It was just that weird ''not you'' answer to my question. It didn't give me an age like it did to my friends.

[TenkRealist]

See an exorcist. Immediately. I'm a piece of trash who doesn't deserve the Lord but only he can save you from this. I've got nothing more to say.

[Asker]

What I have is endometriosis. That is what was causing my miscarriages.

[Flower7]

Something must be wrong. Five miscarriages is a LOT for one person.

[Asker]

I have stage 3 moderate endometriosis (that explains why I had to be on Ibuprofene whenever I had a very painful period) and need surgery to remove some of the tissue so I can improve my fertility.

[Flower7]

I’m glad that at least they found the reason for it. Hopefully getting that surgery will solve the problem.

[Cubus]

If you have endometriosis then you may have some difficulties with getting pregnant. But from what I know it's cureable, you can do some things to improve your fertility. You should be in contact with your gyn, after treatment everything should be fine.

Everything's gonna be alright. Just watch out for yourself, eat healthy food, stay in good shape, so the baby would have a good home :) I will pray for you.

[sean1234]

Go to a naturopath doctor. You are what you eat. There is always something you are doing, eating, drinking etc...

[Asker]

I have stage 3 moderate endometriosis (that explains why I had to be on Ibuprofene whenever I had a very painful period) and need surgery to remove some of the tissue so I can improve my fertility.

[sean1234]

Yeah, but why did it start? What caused it? That's why I talked about a naturopath or holistic doctor, one that might even specialize in that field. One is a Dr of man, the others health message is more bible oriented.

This is just one example of the 1st thing I found.
Holistic Gynecology Dr. Barbara Plucknett Advanced Gynecology...
www.drbarbaraplucknett.com/holistic-gynecology

[The_Naughty_Guy]

I don’t know the answer. But I wish you good luck for your appointment with doctor

[Asker]

It was endometriosis causing my miscarriages.

[ArtemisSilver]

This is really a question to ask a doctor.

[Asker]

I know. On Thursday morning is the sooner appt they had. All I can do now is wait and hope it's not something that bad. It would be devastating if I can't ever carry a child full term.

[ArtemisSilver]

Could be a lot of things. Take the wait time and focus on your healing.

[Asker]

I have stage 3 moderate endometriosis and a surgery is required to improve my fertility. There is no cure for it but the symptoms can be reduced.