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Is he being inconsiderate?

bigdreamer1

Xper 5 Age: 34

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed to go to a client dinner with him so I cancelled my original plans. We are hosting the duo we just went & visited this last weekend since they are coming into town for a wedding. Last night on our way to dinner he lets me know he’s going to a guys night tonight & so I reach out to one of my girlfriends to hang out. Today he asks if there’s any way I can leave work early & I do. I let him know I can & that i’m running 2 quick errands first. I get home & he’s playing xbox and asks me to blow him. I the comment & start doing chores. After I have been home for 45 minutes he comes to me and starts undoing his pants &gesturing to give him a bj, I just stare. He mouths how I never want to “take care of him” and walks off. I tell him the reason I am not is because he is going to be gone all night with the boys &when I come home he’s playing games with the boys for 45 min so I don’t feel obligated to serve him when he’s not considering the time with me. He states he isn’t going to fight with me and I told him I’m not fighting just telling you why I’m not giving you a bj. He goes to lay in bed &I go lay beside him while he scrolls social for about 20 min before turning away from me &acting like he is going to sleep. I get up to feed the dogs and go to sit by the pool and within 5 min he is leaving the house, not saying a word to me, then texts noticeably annoyed that he will be gone until boys night starts. This is somewhat a common occurrence when he doesn’t get his way, he’ll ignore me even if I try to talk to him he won’t respond. I just don’t see why he doesn’t get we have &are about to spend a lot of time with his people &I’d like to think he’d take advantage of our alone time, not use it to continue to spend with others and only give me attention if intimacy is involved. General thoughts?

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I ask all women 18 - 40 years old?

Remember to read it fully: Most women complain about men when it comes down to making love. But what if you find a man that is like a women, like me? 1. I make love for meaning for a deeper connection. They don’t...

new-person

Xper 3 Age: 48

Remember to read it fully: Most women complain about men when it comes down to making love. But what if you find a man that is like a women, like me? 1. I make love for meaning

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Have you ever accepted the fact that you are the side guy/girl?

I use to be a loyal and devoted guy in committed relationships and I still am if I meet the right girl that chooses me like I choose her that makes me her top priority the same way I make her mine , but unfortunately I...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

We're we not dating?

I've been seeing this guy since August. He's made a point to let me know I'm the only one he's talking to. I asked him to be my boyfriend in December. He said yes. My roommates went outta town so I asked him to stay with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He said where them hoes at?

My boyfriend and I were laying in bed about to go to sleep. He jokingly said, “Now time to suck this di**. I laughed and then he said, “I going to hit chu’ up. Come thru” I was taken a-back because he doesn’t really speak...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I force myself to be happy for my friends and get out of this live triangle?

I am victim of a classic & frankly, ridiculous love triangle. I met a guy who I had an instant connection with & we became very close. Over time he inadvertently introduced me to a girl who he had previously had talking...

JaneDoe95676187

Xper 1 Age: 29

Should I just give up on dating since guys seem to leave me for fit, slim or gorgeous women?

My boyfriend of seven months cheated on me with a slender woman. I caught them making out at the park by our college! I dumped his ass immediately. He said, “Well what did you expect? I like a woman than can take care of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I went to surprise him but he shocked me?

This guy who wants to settle with me and has come all the way from overseas to spend time with me is supposed to fly early morning so I go at 3am to him hotel room to surprise him. Shocked i see another couple in the room...

Engie

Xper 3 Age: 47

He is not saying good mornings and goodnights anymore, does it mean he’s losing interest?

Im in a situationship rn with a guy I’ve been seeing over 2 months. At first, i thought everything was going great, he would kiss me in the cheek and lips and hug me all the time, making me feel he likes me very much. But...

Soymilktofu

Xper 1 Age: 27

Family & Friends

My Brother - IN LAW - is obsessed with me?

I have a half sister I was not close with growing up. when I turned 24, she had her first baby with her abusive husband, who I never met until then, he was always beating her up, cheated on her the night she had my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Would you lose respect for someone who is rude to customer service?

My aunt and I live together. A few weeks ago she was talking to her phone company to pay a bill or something, and they said that if she adds another line, then that line would only have to pay $10 a month. My aunt asked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I just had an embarrassing relationship moment. How do you deal with them😂?

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 years but only living together for 5 months 😍 still super in love and not out of the honeymoon phase yet but things got too real 😂 Last night he wanted to play video...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I reading too deep into this?

The guy I’m talking to just sent me a text 8 hours later telling me he couldn’t respond because he wasn’t feeling well and took medication. Mind you, we spoke hours ago before this , he didn’t mention feeling unwell or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he want me?

Ok so I have a good mate who is also mates with a family member, the. past 4 years we've been friends with benefits, he's had girlfriends in-between, (we never did while he was with someone) he's usually a player, as in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do so many people take things the wrong way such as sexually?

A lot of women seem to be offended on the third date or so. It’s the same women who complain about how men are too quick to jump into bed. It’s whenever we start having more deeper emotional conversations that they try...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Would you sacrifice your self if your husband was high profile?

I googled a guy I knew from church who is a doctor and he and his wife biked 520 kilometres in 20 days to raise money for the doctor’s medical projects. A lot of the biking trails they used contained poorly cleared dirt...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

The heartache of unfulfilled connections?

If a man sleeps with a woman without respect for her, he may feel contempt afterward than nothing. Many women end up heartbroken because they’ve slept with men just to entertain them, and feel undervalued and discarded...

Midnight25

Xper 1 Age: 36

Girl's Behavior

What do I do about it?

I have a 35 year old cousin and she is a guest in our home with her mom right now. She is childish and acts like a man, already cuts her hair short like men I don't know why, just tryna explain her to you guys. I am a 18...

Anonymous

(18-24)