Im in a situationship rn with a guy I’ve been seeing over 2 months. At first, i thought everything was going great, he would kiss me in the cheek and lips and hug me all the time, making me feel he likes me very much.
But things have changed over time. We text each other everyday and pretty much all they when we’re off work. And would have late night convo w him and i never got bored with it. He would always let me know when he’s off to bed and would say good night everyday. But now, since last week, he started to disappear in the middle of the convo and i was just left there waiting for him to reply. And started skipping saying good mornings as well and he just continues the conversation we were having the day before.
In fact, I had noticed that he never reacts to those “send it to your crush” reels and nor when i say i miss you or something affectionate. As you can tell, i like him way more than he likes me, im not the one with upper hand. There too many other signs i caught but I won't include them to this post.
Are those the signs that he’s pulling away from me? Should i tell him how i feel about him so i can have a closure at least?
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2-3 months is just about the time the honeymoon phase wears off and you start seeing who that person really is. A lot of times they aren’t genuinely as consistent as they were when they were trying to win your favor by being performative and doing the things that make them look good. Once you’re locked in the conquest is over for a lot of men and they lose interest. Obviously this is not every guy, like I’ve been with my a few years and he’s never switched up. Prior to him though a lot of guys did.
That kind of things can lessen in a relationship over time, but it seems too early in a relationship that’s only two months old. It could mean he is losing interest.
I wouldn't read too much into that