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My fiancé and I have a large age gap (I am 28 and he is 50) and other differences but we have a strong emotional connection that holds us together. I don’t know why but even though he says he wants to be with me, he isn’t very expressive or affectionate. He doesn’t compliment me ever. I may tell him things I like about him but he is never able to answer when I ask the same in return. Or I will compliment him on his physical attributes but he will say things like your lips are fine or this is average. You could do better if you put work in. Etc. I don’t really get it because he is pretty average looking and not my normal type but I really love him and have gone out of my way to prove it. I can’t tell if he really doesn’t like me but still wants to get married for convenience or if he is just bad at expressing but every time I try communicating this, he ignores me or diverts. Even though he is close to 50, makes less than me and has been divorced 3 times he tells me he is a catch but never makes me feel like he is lucky to have me. I don’t feel loved or understood by him and it hurts a lot. I don’t understand why he acts so indifferent. The only times I’ve seen him not like that is when other men give me attention and then he gets really nasty and jealous. He has called me a slut, whore, etc before out of that possessiveness. And when we sleep together, it is always passionate. But in the day to day, he acts very indifferent and I am trying to understand why. Any ideas or understanding? An outside perspective would be much welcome please. Thanks in advance ;-(

I used to have a Girls ask Guys account in high school when I was just a confused little teen asking about my crushes. I felt like at the time it was mostly other confused teens and young adults trying to figure out what feeelings were. but that was an old account thar I have abandoned and forgotten how to login

I created this burner account to ask about my current social and some past mistakes but I feel like this site is a lot more toxic then it was 4-6 years ago. that's not to say it was great then. There were people asking for nudes or spilling there messy abusive relationships. but now this site seem more politized and angry. There are constant post on how feminism ruined everything or how every girl is a moody lying slut. there are very thinly veiled post about gender roles and society that try to pretend they're just about dating advice.

I know this kinda content isn't just on G@G, I always seen this on Youtube, Reddit and any densely male populated site. I also noticed that most of the replies to questions are more male. even on very popular questions. this entire place feels like I'm on r/redpill or r/askreddit or r/amI theasshole

I just feel like men have gotten angrier in general but I can especially see it on this site. I am wondering if it's the kinda of content I've been engaging with or if this is what everybody sees.