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The number one thing I noticed was his eye contact… most waiters just look etc but whenever he talked he made great eye contact and when he was talking to my mom he was mostly facing towards me and he looked at me majority of the time while talking with his hands.

He asked my mom what brings her here and visiting and she said visiting me and he asked if we’re from here we said no he asked how I got here and I said I worked here for two years as a teacher and I told him I stopped and I’m going into nursing and he says yeah he understands and he’s changing his major from film/ media to aviation said he was doing a 180. But when he talks his eyes are always on me and he was talking about something and he asked “what’s the
Word?” But still not looking away etc

But even after the bill he lingered and asked what our plans were and said he has great suggestions and mentioned the art museum and tried to show me where it was and he tried to get us some free art tickets

And to define what 'not treating others well' is:

• No interest in, and little or no time for, the other.
• Asking no questions about the other's life or how they are doing.
• Being entirely self-focused.
• Looking for encouragement and support, but not giving it in return.
• Not showing appreciation for the other.

How unwell is the person with depression/stress?
Answer: Highly stressed/depressed.

How long has it been going on?
Answer: Years.

I'm only giving two multiple choice options, which I know is limiting, but it's purposeful. I'm trying to distill a complex issue down to brass tacks.

Thank you, in advance, for all comments and thoughts on the matter. Feel free to elaborate. I'd love to hear your anecdotal and personal stories of how you felt, from either vantage point, and what you concluded and did about it.

P. S. The main reason I left GAG years ago is because GAG sucks ass now, due primarily to management issues being made.
I wasn't going to mention it, but it's happening right now, as I am trying to post this question.

They have programmed A. I. to take over my title, and is repeatedly changing the wording on it.
Fuck off, GAG, and A. I. I will decide what I want to say, and exactly how to say it.

My title should be: Is depression or chronic stress a valid reason not to treat others well?

Due to some problems, I decided to change my name. I'm very undecided about the name. I have brown hair and green eyes. The reason I say this is that the meanings of some names are related to appearance. Let's go over here. There are two names that confuse me. One of them is Gökçen, that sounds good. The second one is Ahuzar, I think it's on my mind because it looks noble. All those around me who commented on the name Gökçen said that it was a soft name. In other words, he didn't look tough and noble. Anyway, I want the name to be truly noble. It is noble enough to be written in maroon letters. I would appreciate it if you didn't suggest a different name. I'm already very confused.