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Search Results: getting over being hurt
Getting over a toxic relationship you didn’t want to leave?
I finally broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months after months of what I’d now actually accept was emotional abuse. My boyfriend even if he doesn’t want to accept it, manipulated me, disrespected and didn’t value me, tried...
confusedtea
Xper 4 Age: 22 Is it wrong of me to feel hurt when my best friend said “we need to get you a bf”?
My best friend and I have been friends since 7th grade in middle school. We weren’t the closest at the time but we stuck around the same friend groups from middle school to high school. When deciding for colleges my...
bethrog08
Xper 1 Age: 27 Is the guy I'm in a relationship with and I toxic for each other?
For context, after ignoring him for several days because he kept fighting and pressuring me to be more caring and basically demanding a lot of things from me, i told him maybe he needs to find someone else because he...
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Xper 5 Age: 35 Why are most people and society so nasty to tall women?
I mean society said the man needs to be taller than the woman. I mean men are naturally taller than women and most women are shorter than men. Society said that short and average size women are seen as more feminine and...
AmazonChick171
Xper 7 Age: 27 Girls, Getting a Mammogram Soon? Here are Some Tips!
Point of view: You've just celebrated the big 4-0 a few months ago but now you're standing topless in a clinical suite staring at the big machine that's about to press your girls like a panini. For the past ~27 years your...
Anonymous
(36-45) Anyone else grew up unnatractive to others? Has anything changed for you as you got older?
Back when I was younger i was depressed over my appearance honestly felt like no females really liked me anyway no one really told me they actually liked me either. made me just depressed each day honestly I remember one...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I get my friend to stop pressuring me to date?
I’m single and turned 40 this past winter. Throughout my 20’s and early 30’s I was I guess a bit eager to get into relationships and I kinda rushed them. I didn’t sleep with the guys, but it did result in me getting hurt....
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you have to grow up to get ahead in life?
I've made practically a personal brand around living my life my way, prioritizing having a good time just barely below, practically neck and neck with getting where I want to be in life... And it has worked amazing. There...
What to you is insufferable?
Why do women who are conventionally pretty act like their opinions matter the most? why do they assume they have to be liked universally? why do they assume they have to look up no matter what they do or say? A pretty...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did I over react?
My ex called me emotionally weak after i told him me and my mother aren’t seeing eye to eye and we been fighting a lot ever since i had to move back in with her. He said i need to be more stronger for him, mind you he...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I fix this. I fucked up and I feel like I'm being gas lit?
So I found out that this girl I was interested in was married and I confronted her about it and she told me it wasn't true that she was single. I was approached again a while later with the same information but this time...
JoseVilla1991
Xper 1 Age: 35 I dont want to be used but dont want to lose him completely... any idea what to do?
I've known my best friend for 5 years. His family is more like family then my own. Been friends through several relationships. I haven't been in a relationship for 4 years. They have always ended horribly, and 2 of which...
Anonymous
(36-45) The Day I Was (Almost) Struck By Lightning
A few years back, I worked at a Children's Museum as a manager. We had this huge outdoor water area with a lot of metal parts and high trees, things that lightning tends to get along with very well. Our protocol was that...
Anonymous
(36-45) Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend
Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...
The Kaizen Way, AKA the method of making changes in baby steps. How can it change your life for the better?
The whole baby steps thing is all about how our minds are basically allergic to change. For our emotional brain, any change is like a red flag for potential failure, a threat to our cozy comfort zone, and a giant...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Is my friend being toxic? or am I horrible for thinking that she is?
I’ve been friends with this girl for over 10 years. She is what I used to consider my best friend. We were very close. She would disassociate herself from time to time to deal with personal stuff, I totally understand it...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guy I'm seeing was sending rude texts about me to his friend?
I reconnected with a guy I dated years ago and we've been hanging out for 2 weeks. Whenever we see each other, we hang out for 12 hours straight and he's made it clear he likes me and is really into me. Last night I came...
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Yoda Age: 31 REALLY needing some relationship advice regarding my boyfriend. Can someone please offer assistance/input?
Long story short, me and my boyfriend have a really good relationship. We have very similar values and we get along well. We get along well with each other's families too and our families love us being together as do our...
Anonymous
(30-35) Got into an argument with my boyfriend. Now he won't talk to me and we are staying at separate locations. What should I do?
Long story short, me and my boyfriend have a really good relationship. We have very similar values and interests and we get along well. We get along well with each other's families too and our families love us being...
Anonymous
(30-35) Eight Life Lessons: Told By A 23-year-old Girl🎀
I'm writing this as a catharsis but I'm also I'm hoping that it will be helpful for someone. Life is so very hard and sometimes we get hard on ourselves as well and we tend to forget or we live our lives unaware of...
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