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The truth the Medea will never say because it caters to society not truth. People now a days want freedom to treat others the way they want, without being looked as doing any wrong. In society people want the freedom to accept and reject anyone they like without being at fault of consequences, even if it to their own kids.

Emotional abuse is now so common, because people want the freedom to raise their kids as they wish without any negative look. But with that freedom comes responsibly. But that is the problem no one takes responsibility for their actions and so much now that is looked at as normal is Infact abuse. 99.999...% of people who are LGBTQ have been abused as a child. A transgender develops because the child is rejected emotionaly do to the parents wanting a child of the other gender. This makes them grow up thinking they was supposed to be the other gender. This is why the LGBTQ community is so large now, because of emotional abuse.

If someone is rejected by their family what about society. When a mind is rejected by family it looks to society and other members in the community to find a sense of belonging and acceptance, but society is not nice to what it rejects. Society also dose not care about the person only the labels it puts on people. Is it the person who is LGBTQ fault they was abused? Dose being abused make them a bad person? Or maybe it is someone who was wrongly accused and/or charged. But society dose not care about truth only the labels they see that is put on the person by society.

So what happens when a person can not find any acceptance or feeling of belonging? Read this page (psychologicalscience. org/news/releases/social-acceptance-and-rejection-the-sweet-and-bitter. html)

What happened in Tumbler Ridge BC was nothing less then society rejecting and isolating someone who was not accepted by their own family. This made the person to suffer as they seen all others being accepted, they could not take it any more then took revenge.

lately I been wondering this a lot.

I look at people like Eminem who's been a multiplatinum artist for decades, has a $250 Million net worth yet is still a slave to his vices and past trauma.

he has opened up in the past about still being addicted to pharmaceutical drugs and how they all affected his quality of life such as his mood, sleep and even giving him amnesia. so bad that he would look at old videos of his past concerts and dont remember ever performing there.

so again I been wondering it seems like no matter how much success you achieve in life your past traumas will always find a way to creep back in your life sooner or later. so this makes want to ask if success is worth chasing in the first place?

She lost because

She didn't distance herself from all the bull shit stuff people hated about the Biden administration. She leaned into it if anything.

Because Joe Biden wouldn't step down early enough, making it look like Kamala slid right into a spot she didn't deserve. Which I understand is not really fair to hold against her.

The incessant celebrity endorsements really makes her look out of touch and full of shit. Also not really fair to hold against her. But Cardi B, J. Lo, ALL the late night hosts, and on and on. They are not like us so why would them endorsing her win anyone over?

Her not being willing to take a stand on Gaza really made her look bad to a lot of young voters

Her not being willing to step out and get in front of audiences that weren't EXTREMELY friendly to her, save that one fox news interview which didn't go great.

Although I don't think she was as bad as Hillary and Joe in this regard, it still felt like she was talking down to anyone that was on the fence or anyone from middle America. or really anyone from PA, NC, Wisconsin, Michigan. I just always felt this condescension to anyone not from LA. NYC, or DC.

Democrat turn out was down 19% because she was meh, she acted like the piss poor administration she was a part of was actually doing just fine, she made it obvious she thought things were just fine that last 4 years when they were not for a shit ton of people. If she's not even going to pretend to be a little different why go out and vote?

Most of my life, I've never thought i wanted kids cause I barely wanted friends. Looking at relationships I had, which isn't many, just 3.

All long term, but only 1 mentioned wanting kids. She did for a time, open me to it but infidelity on her part led to our relationship ending a little shy of a year.

Now as I try to pave a path forward for myself, I still have to juggle with the problem that male CF patients born in the late 1990s only live 40, maybe 45 years. And I'm 26 now, and way behind the curve to due bad decisions I've made in my life.

This combined with my status as being single makes children a laughable proposition. I can't imagine myself ever ready to handle responsibilities of being a parent. My longevity is a serious consideration as well as me being behind in life.

So I'm gonna lean towards best case scenario, I've got a wife with me when my time ends. And that is what I want most, a spouse. But what my last relationship proved is I'm somewhat amenable, if I love the woman. In that this children issue would not turn into some ultimatum.

I know better than to do something that moronic when the relationship is that special. I'd just have to allow our motivation for eachother to succeed to get me to where I feel ready to take that next step. Do you want kids?