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Is my 54M coworker actually asking me (32F) out on a date?
Did my 54M coworker ask me (32F) out? He also hid his date from me. What is this? He has always been flirty with me for more than a year, sometimes made worrisome jokes such as he is in love with me but he has never made...
useful_mind
Xper 1 Age: 31 How do you share that you have an SO? Why are some guys so AWKWARD about it?
Guys... some of you make me laugh the way you announce that you're "seeing someone" or have a girlfriend/SO. If I'm seeing someone -- and yes, to me that is synonymous with "serious"/"exclusive"/"boyfriend" -- I just say...
First meeting in person was awful. Why?
i (22F) study in a capital city in my country second year now, university is very hard for me, i feel very lonely and for the last year I've been extremely depressed. there's a guy (22M), he's gay so its nothing romantic,...
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Xper 4 Age: 22 Emotionally close but not official after months of talking. What are we?
I (25F) have been talking long distance with a guy (29M) for a while now and I’m trying to understand the dynamic because it feels emotionally serious, but also unclear at the same time We talk every single day. maybe...
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Xper 1 Age: 20 Is my husband being disrespectful by following his ex on Instagram?
My husband (35m) and I (30f) are expecting our first baby together. I noticed he started following his ex on instagram so I asked him why the sudden follow and if they were talking. She’s married too. He said she followed...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would someone think a 6‑year age gap is “too old” for them?
I started talking to this girl when she was like 17 and I was 23, not illegal, but I guess it's in that area where it's a little grey, but even years later like when I was say early 30's and she was 6 years younger than...
Anonymous
(36-45) I have a boyfriend but like another guy at school—what should I do?
For starters, I have known my boyfriend since early February and we connected through mutual friends. He goes to a different highschool than me but loves close so we manage to hangout every weekend and it gives us the...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my affectionate male friend straight or secretly crushing on my bi best friend?
My male best friend is bisexual, and we have a mutual male friend from the improv community. This guy has more female friends than male friends. He talks to women naturally, but with men he seems unable to start a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I remove people on Instagram if they suddenly stop talking to me?
Sometimes i have people that would start talking to me, then stop talking for like 2 years and then reach out again. Then they pull the same trick and continue to watch my stories anyway. I find this quite disrespectful...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does my guy coworker like me as more than just a friend?
A while back a guy at work called Ollie randomly started talking to me. We’d never really spoken before, so I was surprised by how friendly and polite he was. He asked if I’d had any further training yet and said we’d...
Anonymous
(25-29) What can I do about a security guard who followed me and demanded my number?
The shopping centre I always go to after University has this one huge tall muscular hairy South-Asian, maybe early 30s man that I am lowkey really terrified of, and I'm not talking just appearance, but he stares in a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I stay no contact with a guy who lied and treated me like a rebound?
I started talking to this guy 1 month and I thought we were becoming really good friends. Very quickly though it became super intense. He would call me every morning and night, we would do sleep calls, flirt, constantly...
Anonymous
(18-24) Can someone help you see your self?
Do you believe that people can be mirrors? I was in a deep depression for two years. During that time, I talked to a man who made me feel emotionally safe. He made it seem like he could love me with all my flaws and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did she cut me off and disappear after we slept together again?
I was having sex with someone, she wanted dating and I didn't since I'm a resident doctor and I'm busy. She stopped talking to me. Then I started to chasing her, she said "We're not on the same page" I said "Dating? Yes...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you ever get annoyed by people not paying attention to anything in public?
I'm at Costco the other day and pushing the kart when all of a sudden I hit this traffic jam. Why is there a traffic jam? Because some asshole decided to put a salsa tasting station inbetween the lambchops and where the...
Do middle school “relationships” really count as dating experience?
I don’t think they do. My specific “ones” were people I didn’t really like but I did it because I felt like I was supposed to. Plus we barely talked; I was an exceptionally shy child and would only giggle when anyone...
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Xper 1 Age: 21 Is this my intuition warning me about him, or just my anxiety and insecurity?
I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months. He treats me really nicely, he’s sweet, consistent, and we have fun together when we hang out. On paper, things seem good, but something has been feeling off for me and I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why would a guy avoid talking TO me but constantly talk ABOUT me to others?
There's a guy (M49) who is very awkward about talking TO ME directly. He's always "too busy" or goes silent and then reads something I send him at 2-3am. Meanwhile he talks to EVERYONE about me... I'm awesome, blah blah....
Girls and guys you ever get approached just because of the shirt you wore?
I was out doing my deliveries last night when these two women who were hot af saw me wearing my Zohran Mamdani shirt and we started talking about political stuff and also snapped a pic of me. unfortunately i was so in the...
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
She ignored me and left with another guy — should I stop trying?
Hello, there is a girl who was my teammate for 3 years, i didn't like her at all but suddenly i fell for her and started interacting, in 3 months we talked more, teasing each other, having some moments before she left...
Anonymous
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