Search Results: initiating a break up

So if me and my ex broke up two months ago but she is already Facebook official and met his family would that be a rebound?

I doubt the guy was there when I was around bc she had to spend almost every day with each other before the breakup happened even tho she was the one to initiate the break up bc I got mad at her for hiding talking to her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I ask him out?

So recently, I have gotten to know this guy at my job. He would always look at me and I would get nervous so one day I got tired of him looking at me and started to talk to him. I asked him if he had Instagram and he said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I feel like a d! ck for treating him like that what shall I do?

I deeply regret my actions and feel ashamed of how things turned out. For a couple of months, I was talking to a guy, unsure if we were a good match. My intention was never to lead him on, but his overly possessive...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Confusing behaviour from my ex?

My (25F) ex (27M) has broken up with me twice, once in March 2023 and again in November 2023. After the last breakup I told him I couldn’t be his friend for a while and needed some space. He respected that and only...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

What’s your experience with family estrangement?

I was brought up in a dysfunctional broken home. I’ve done a lot of things that people would not believe so there is no point in writing about the causes of the estrangements throughout the years. Some tips for parents,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does my ex still care for me or just lonely?

We broke up 10 days ago. We both disagree who broke up with who. He said I told him to go. I remember him saying he wd get his things and go and I said go on then. First few days was the angry what you doing, who you...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

Girl's Behavior

Why should a guy ask a young woman's hand in marriage if women initiate divorce 80+% of the time, especially in western countries?

As a kid and into adult hood, I have an old school mentality of getting married. I'm not a guy who wants to play around. But today, I see more girls getting divorced. Using dating apps I see women in their 20s or 30s or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was my boyfriend abusive, what do I do now?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2.5 years and everything has always been good and he’s always very sweet and caring, even when he’s drunk. He doesn’t drink often either. Now something happened though that made me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What’s his intention?

Me and a guy hang out in the same friend group. I confessed my feelings to him after noticing his attractions towards me since he always shows me attentiveness, care, consideration, act of service, eye contact, mirroring...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Breakup Confusion?

So my ex boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago. He initiated the break up. After we broke I deleted everything and am trying to move on. It’s hard because I love him. He on other hand seems like he can care less. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he breaking up with me? Proposing? Thinking what comes next?

Hi, Long story short - together for 2 years. Relationship was like a rollercoaster as he is avoidant and I am anxious. We were really in love, he said he has never felt like this towards somebody else. He said he would...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend needs time after a break?

My boyfriend and I have been together 8 years. We recently went through a one week “break” initiated by me. I came back and told him I loved him no matter what. We were fine for a couple days but now he says he needs time...

girl504

Xper 3 Age: 27

How to break the touch barrier on the second date?

Firstly, I’m in no rush to do anything sexual. The first date was great and our second one is set up. Dinner and maybe some exploring afterwards, I’ll be in his car. We’ve expressed we think each other are cute. But the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, is this guy really that shy or is he playing me?

I have been receiving signals of interest from this co-worker for over 7 months now. He is a very nice guy and I perceived him to be very shy from the get go. We talk about a lot of things and he shared some more intimate...

myloveforlooloo

Xper 1 Age: 36

My avoidant ex and I are new coworkers. Is it going to be smooth or a bumpy ride at workplace?

We both are avoidants. He has been upset with me for rejecting him. It is so bad that he is mad at me after years. He also has a weird obsession with his power over me. In other words, super possessive and even the hint...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does no contact rule works if you're the one who break things up?

If you're the one who demands that the two of you should cut contact because you notice the other person acting uninterested and distant, you've tried to ask them if there's something wrong, but they deny it. However, you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to handle this situation with him?

Known him since 2015. We have a great connection that we both cherish. We talk about that often. We've always talked regularly. We talk for hours every time. We don't see each other often, different countries. Last time...

MysticCat

Xper 2 Age: 33

Why do women end up resenting me for the very things that attracted them in the first place? I'm 34 and she is 34?

To clarify Not the first time this has happened but after a 2 year relationship my girlfriend broke up with me blaming me for being selfish. I am very successful, have many hobbies and interests and passions that she once...

Sopwith724

Xper 1 Age: 36