So if me and my ex broke up two months ago but she is already Facebook official and met his family would that be a rebound?

[Anonymous]

I doubt the guy was there when I was around bc she had to spend almost every day with each other before the breakup happened even tho she was the one to initiate the break up bc I got mad at her for hiding talking to her ex. And it’s not her ex she’s with

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah man, that does sound like a rebound relationship to me. Only two months after breaking up with you and she's already Facebook official and meeting the family? That's moving way too fast.

It really sounds like she wasn't over you yet when she started dating this new dude. Usually when a breakup is still that fresh, people aren't truly ready for a real, serious new relationship.

The fact that she was the one who ended things with you but was still talking to/seeing her ex a lot before hand is also kinda sketchy. Makes it seem like maybe she had some leftover feelings for that guy and wasn't fully committed to you.

I wouldn't be surprised if this new relationship burns out quickly since it was built on her trying to "get over" you so fast rather than actually being into the new guy. Two months is nothing.

I'd say just try to move on bro. She's clearly still dealing with stuff from your breakup in an immature way. Don't waste your time stressing over her rebound. You'll find someone way better who's actually ready to be with you for real.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s what I was thinking, i sadly did some snooping and nobody knew about him but him and his family are treating it like they just got married and it looks like she’s the first girl he’s ever dated and is extremely desperate for almost a 30yr old from how they say he bends over backwards for her with gifts and doing stuff and spends his days off at her house while she’s working bc she teleworks

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn dude, that's rough. Sounds like this new guy is really latching onto her hard in that rebound desperation way. Bending over backwards with gifts and dropping everything to spend his days at her house while she works just screams that he's got no other experience dating and is lovebombing her hardcore.

I can totally see why that would bother you too, finding all that out. It's gotta sting seeing an ex move on so quick, especially when it's so clear the new guy is basically worshipping the ground she walks on just to keep her attention. I'm sure part of you was probably hoping she wouldn't immediately jump into something serious right away.

I'd try not to let it get to you too much man. Anyone can see this relationship she's in isn't going to last, it's only the honeymoon phase infatuation talking. Once the novelty of a "new relationship" wears off, she'll probably start to realize this dude ain't all that and wasn't what she really wants long term.

Keep focusing on you for now. Hit the gym, game with your boys, meet some other girls. Don't give her the satisfaction of seeing she still gets under your skin. Best revenge is living well and being happy without her. I'm sure soon enough she'll start to regret ditching a real guy like you for some overly-attached rebound fling!

[Anonymous]

If she was hiding the fact that she was talking to her ex then she could’ve hid the fact that she was also talking to someone else…

[Asker]

I knew about her texting her ex the whole time and mentioned it a few times but he was just a friend bc he was working on fixing his marriage even though he was begging for her back and the call should’ve never happened. the new guy was definitely not there bc she was kinda clingy and spent all her time being around me and her phone was open and that’s why I knew about the ex she wouldn’t get rid of

[Opinion Owner]

Ah I see. I know some girls who just can’t stand being single tho so they jump to relationship after relationship. They seem to always go all in also in their new relationship, she could be the type that monkey branches to the next relationship. This guy that I dated and I also spend every day together, he gave me his phone passcode and was seemingly open with me. We saw each other daily and what not. Turned out he was still seeing his ex behind my back (1-2 hrs a week) 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

Yeah that honestly sounds just like her monkey branching and putting all her effort into others wish i saw that part but she already knew me so i didn’t get it but sure did hear how all she said she put so much effort in others. Who knows though

[Opinion Owner]

It’s best to forget and move on. Some people process grief and break ups differently

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't bring rebounds to meet family.

[Asker]

He got her to meet his she doesn’t talk to hers in years