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Search Results: more control in a relationship
Am I wrong for wanting to fix my friend up?
I matchmake. It’s what I do for my friends and not to toot my own horn, but I’m good at it. I’ve brought so many of my friends into happy, healthy relationships that eventually turned into happy marriages. I have one...
Anonymous
(36-45) If ohana means family, then what is this?
so my fiancé he is 23 and I am 29. He has been having a lot of rough patches since we have been together. We have been together for about going on three years. He had a diagnosis of an illness. It is under control now. So...
Anonymous
(30-35) A situationship isn’t love, it’s emotional abuse in disguise…
We live in a time where “it’s complicated” has become a normal relationship status. Where casual hookups are expected, and commitment is seen as pressure. But there’s a painful truth underneath all the mixed signals and...
Why do some females’ blame their spouses for them having to work?
I sometimes hear girls’ say my husband makes me work? And I just shake my head , my ex use to say shit like this to me as well , and I would get upset at her and tell her don’t work then , but don’t think you are going to...
Equality with men is not always beneficial to women
Inspired by a question I answered this morning on GAGS, the question was “When do you think women will finally be equal to men?” Equality is important, but trying to make women the same as men in every way isn’t always...
The covert assistant?
Anyone ever deal with a woman who tries to be a secret but is anything but that? she might as well spray paint "I was here" across a guys entire body. When i can easily tell it's supposed to be some kind of secret thing...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would he start dating his best friends ex?
The guy I was seeing hated his friend’s girlfriend because she was toxic and mean to his friend and she was controlling while they were together. Around the same time the friend broke up with the girlfriend my guy and I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it possible to mend this relationship?
Without going into my whole life story, basically I met a woman online from Turkiye. We meant nothing from ot except as language partners. We clicked so well and I thought she was flirting with me, so I asked her...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys’ have you ever experienced Emotional Abuse in a relationship with a girl?
Emotional abuse is when a partner ridicules you , or criticizes you and belittles you , they will threaten to leave you , if you don’t do what she says. Another form of emotional abuse , is when she with holds intimacy...
The sacredness of seeds. The wonder of creation and all living creatures. An essay I wrote for Earth Day 2012.
Have you ever thought of seeds as sacred? Since the beginning of time, people in their different parts of the world thrived on the abundance of food that Earth generously provided. Farmers have always recognized the...
Why do some people get into relationships with very jealous insecure people?
I ran into a old female friend / co worker of mine that we always had a great friendship , no sex or no hooking up with each other whatsoever, we were just work buddies and friends’ and we are still friends’ on social...
Do I have to get married to appease my parents?
I'm 41 male, and I don't want to get married or even have a relationship. My parents are pressuring me to get married before they die. Their "marriage" is extremely flawed. my father is very dominant over me my sister and...
Anonymous
(36-45) I have to let her go, because I'm too crazy about her?
I work with this girl and we've been good friends for a while. We've always had great chemistry. Other people we work with say that we would make a perfect couple. She's even made jokes that we would end up getting...
Anonymous
(25-29) Reasons why people cheat
Don’t get me wrong cheating is scummy there is no excuse this is just possible insight as to why people cheat. I’ve covered before the signs someone’s cheating but these are more of reasons why people do it rather then...
Why people use others in romantic relationships
Unfortunately most people aren’t honest about what they’re wanting when they are going to use someone. They love bomb I’ve discussed the signs someone isn’t who someone seems, but these are the reasons behind it. Of...
So You Think You'd Never Join A Cult?
Thanks to social media, we as a society have begun to hear a lot of stories from people who were brought up in cult life, and have escaped cults as adults. Thanks to movies and a lot of horror fiction, there has been this...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why did he turn me down the second day of being together?
We got back together after a year apart. We slept together the first night then the second night I tried for sex and he said no. He’d been seeing someone he wasn’t in a relationship with and told her it never would...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I just cancel my debit card?
So my grandparents left behind a small trust fund for me on my dad's side. I'll be honest. I've been incredibly irresponsible and have spent thousands on bs I don't need. My mom and dad both have access to my bank...
Hotzone417
Xper 7 Age: 32 Stop the Pressure: Rethinking Marriage Expectations for Unmarried Adults
In many families, parents pressure their adult children to marry even when they themselves are trapped in unhappy marriages. This paradox raises an important question: Why do parents insist on a path they know may not...
Being_a_good_Indian
Master Age: 28 6 Signs of a Serial Cheater
1. They lie, particularly in relation to intimacy. "Cheaters lie to their partners about their intimacy priorities, hiding the fact that sexual novelty and / or Sexual compulsivity are at the root of their decision...
