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Search Results: overthinking
His texts suddenly dropped off after we got closer—should I be worried?
I've been seeing this guy for a month now and we still talk everyday and I was just over at his place 2 days ago and had stayed the night but it's like the responses aren't how they were? (A little context) We used to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this guy into me or am I just overthinking the signs?
Okay, so I need your take on something. I’ve been talking to this guy for a couple of months now, but I just got his Instagram a little over a month ago, and we’ve slowly been talking more and more. At first it honestly...
Anonymous
(Under 18) I texted a guy first and now I’m overthinking it—should I delete it?
Basically I messaged a guy something very neutral (I initiated). There was no funky business here. However I have zero clue about the etiquette would most guys assume that if a girl texted him first she is interested? He...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can a shy girl subtly make the first move on a classmate?
I have a thing for this guy in my class. He's a year older than me and this is the first time I've ever really been around him, so we don't have much of a connection. The problem is that I am VERY shy and awkward. My main...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Is this classmate into me or am I overthinking the eye contact?
There's this guy in my class who I've never talked to before. He's a year older and we don't have many mutual so I haven't had much of a chance. He plays hockey with my ex, so I know he knows me. The problem with that is...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Does one of these sound more flirtatious and "I want to be more than friends" than the other, or am I overthinking things?
there's this guy I've been talking to since I was in the hospital in December, which is where we met. Or so I thought. But then once I got home, he's been super aggressive with the texts, always asking how I am, and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is he just being friendly, or do these texts mean he wants more than friends?
there's this guy I've been talking to since I was in the hospital in December, which is where we met. Or so I thought. But then once I got home, he's been super aggressive with the texts, always asking how I am, and...
Shygirl977
Xper 7 Age: 37 Am I ugly or am I overthinking?
I am asking because a group of girls at my school said I was and they were being really mean and laughed at my best friend for being dumb
KittyKaneko
Xper 2 Age: 15 New caregiver struggling with boundaries: am I overthinking this?
I just got done with my training and I am more quiet type. I help take care of intellectually disabled adults and guys with autism. Today kinda spooked me. I have a hard time setting boundaries, because I am quiet....
Anonymous
(30-35) What personal traits are you actively trying to improve right now?
I am working on my reactivity and overthinking.
Is this gym member actually interested in me or am I overthinking it?
I work at a gym, front desk. I see this member come in randomly, sometimes I'd check her in just casually greet her and thats it. I found ehr attractive but that's where it ended, One time I worked out when she was and...
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Xper 6 Age: 38 What to do you do if you think your sister in law is into you?
Ok, let’s say you have a fiancee who you love dearly, you work in the same industry, share similar interests and are very close with her family, that’s great, amazing even… up until her sister seemed to be getting weirdly...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girlfriend keeps saying I don’t love her as a ‘joke’—what response is she expecting?
I sent my girlfriend a photo of me cutting my birthday cake, and she jokingly replied that I hadn’t invited her (we don’t know each other’s families, and she’s told me several times that she’s not really interested in...
Anonymous
(18-24) What should I do? Should I just tell him?
So the guy I’m dating has two jobs now. So I’m understanding that he busy and exhausted most of the time. The only thing is his priority issue. I feel like he has a bros before hoes mentality. Like if you dating someone...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I overthinking or my classmate become more distanced?
One guy, he always drives ma and my classmate home. But he never showed much interest in me. But sometimes he was sweet, we had “networking night” at uni. And he decided to stay for pizza and I always wanted to stay. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) My boyfriend asked for gas money, should I be concerned?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We are both 6 figure earners and in our mid 20s. I do an equal share of planning and paying for dates sometimes even more. Whenever we go on trips, he primarily drives...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it normal to be exclusive with someone but not officially dating yet at 22?
I’ve been seeing a guy for about a month and I’m starting to overthink the situation. We text every day (good morning and good night) and see each other around 3 times a week. When we hang out we sometimes go on dates...
Anonymous
(18-24) I think a guy used PUA/psychological technics on me or am I overthinking?
Dissapearing 10-5-3 days between texting. leaving me on read after i dont agree with him. Talks about implementing rules after only a few dates. Asking to send him random photos and when i dont, gets mad. International...
Anonymous
(36-45) Story time/ Need guys perspective?
Okay I need a male perspective on this. So I DM’d this guy I thought was cute. We had a light convo I asked about the cigars he posts, he answered, I teased him a little, he responded. The energy wasn’t dry. It was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Name 3 of your strengths and 2 flaws you’re actively improving?
Mine, 3 strengths : • Emotionally aware and reflective • Calm and steady, even in difficult moments • Loyal and intentional with the people I choose 2 flaws I’m working on: • Overthinking at times •...
Anonymous
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