Search Results: talking to an ex

Am I doing the right thing with her?

There's this lady I started talking to on Facebook Dating in December last year. She says she's been in bad relationships and doesn't want to date right now. I met her once in person for Starbucks around the time we...

tstarr17

Xper 6 Age: 33

Relationships

How do you cope with non-monogamy?

Hi all, I’ve just been feeling up and down the past 2 weeks because of this new discovery. My boyfriend was caught emotional cheating with his ex last year, we moved past it and worked it out. But then he was caught again...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do men always lose interest in me after a few months?

I (26F) want to understand why so I can fix the problem. Men (6 I’ve talked to in the past year, between 25-42) seem to like me at first, texting, calling, going on dates, and then within a few months it gradually stops....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Auditory hullucination?

Has anyone else ever had this happen to you? For quite awhile now I've experienced this thing where whoever I'm in love with or mostly connected to because of being intimate, well ill hear that persons voice a lot of...

ChristianMaeTorres

Xper 2 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Why did my ex wife become popular in the small town and people love her when she's a karen?

My ex wife is a Karen and always treated me like a child not like an adult. Now my ex wife buys sodas , coffee, water the cashier when she goes grocery shopping , Walmart , Target. People think she is sweet because she...

SuperZonicGUY1992

Xper 5 Age: 34

Would a player put this much effort?

When we first started talking back in February, I wasn't looking for anything. I was pregnant from my ex. I ended up having an unexpected miscarriage in March. This guy turned into my emotional support system during that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I trust her?

So I'm talking to a girl online since 5 months. We have deep conversations, and almost talk daily. She appears a genuinely nice and kind girl, is 2 years elder than me, and we often talk about meeting and planning to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

How long is too long?

me and my ex broke up last year around the end of July, there were some moments where we would try to get back in touch but we didn’t until graduation practice. we were next to each other so he followed me again on...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How long it too long?

me and my ex broke up last year around the end of July, it took me so long to get over him but eventually i did, i blocked him etc and then there were two times where he followed me again and i didn’t follow him back,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Is it a red flag to be close friends with an ex?

If one person is close friends with their ex, I could see how it might seem like feelings are still there and cause insecurity in a relationship. At the same time, after ending a long term relationship, they might see...

meepmeeperton

Xper 7 Age: 22

Other

Who has a harder time accepting accountability and rejection men or women?

Keyword=harder I say women here's why.. 1. Under every post or woman poster here, they are always angry, saying men are the problem x, y, and z. At what point will most women assume accountability? Lack of...

Babebytheshore85

Xper 5 Age: 26

Keyword=harder I say women here's why.. 1. Under every post or woman poster here, they are always angry, saying men are the problem x, y, and z. At what point will most women

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I have a situationship with this adorable guy who happens to be extremely insecure and I don’t know how to’ unblock this relationship, any help?

He is an ex coworker i worked with last year, in February we met each other again and sometimes (not often) started chatting, it was obvious that he likes me, after a couple of months he started flirting when we were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex of 15 years ago suddenly is interested again?

We were dating back when we were in our late teens and we were both in love. Shit happens and drama and we broke up really badly, i moved to an other country etc etc. There have been a couple of times in the past that she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We were dating back when we were in our late teens and we were both in love. Shit happens and drama and we broke up really badly, i moved to an other country etc etc. There have been a

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Family & Friends

Am I a terrible person for disliking people who get clingy over text and small talk?

I have always been an introvert and I don't talk much. However, I can text pretty well. Now, the issue is whenever I'm talking to someone I do not know well, often it leads to them getting clingy. I only expect casual...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My guy friend slowly seems to be getting distant and taking forever to respond but says everything is good?

My guy friend and I started talking in January on instagram when he was out of the country. I knew him cause of his ex. They had broken up months before we started talking as she was cheating. After 3 weeks of talking and...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, how would you feel if you realized you’re better at self-defense than your boyfriend or husband & he’d rely on you more if something happened?

My wife and I signed up for a realism based self defense class awhile ago after an uptick in crime in our city and a few close encounters. We both decided we'd like to know what to do if something happened again. She is...

newgy34

Xper 1 Age: 41

Why would an ex keep reaching out?

I’d like your honest opinion. There’s a man, let’s call him C. We’ve known each other for almost 20 years. I was 13, he was 17 when we met. It felt like we knew each other forever. Friends for 8 years, then a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it getting more difficult to find people who are truly single?

I’m noticing that people are now more often than not single with a “but”. They can be single but is in a situationship with someone else, single but casually dating/talking with multiple people, single but not over their...

Anonymous

(30-35)