Search Results: too needy

Should I just go or ask him before I go?

Everytime I ask him if I can go visit him at his workplace, he says "stop asking me that, it's your choice". He works alone and usually has nothing to do in the evenings. But I feel like I'm too needy if I just go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl who said she likes me sometimes takes a couple hours to respond to texts?

This is a girl who I went on a date with last week and was keen to do another one. We text every day. However sometimes she takes a couple hours to respond to messages I send while I only take 30 to an hour at most. She...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What’s wrong with me, I don’t care about anything or anyone anymore?

It started with my ex, I was feeling depressed and needy and looking back on our old texts. I really cared about her until I got depressed but then she went on and on about her depression is real mine was just young adult...

Surnami

Xper 1 Age: 25

My boyfriend hasn’t initiated a conversation in almost a week, when usually we talk at least every other day. Does he hate me or am I just insecure?

He initiated a conversation last Tuesday I initiated a conversation last Thursday I initiated another conversation Saturday Today is Monday It’s pretty normal for us only to talk every other day, but usually the person...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Boyfriend busy emotionally unavailable?

My boyfriend is going through divorce (not your typical he’s been emotionally done for years only stayed for kids).. anyway he is trying to fix up new place for us and kids who don’t know about me yet until it’s final due...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can I ask a guy to hang?

I've talking to this guy online for a few days and he has not asked to hang yet. It would be strictly casual. We are texting and I am giving every hint in the book to ask to meet and he hasn’t initiated. I said he needs...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to follow up to get together?

Have been talking to this guy online to meet up for something casual. We were supposed to go out Monday but was a miscommunication. We had left it the night before that I would pick a spot to meet. He didn’t respond so I...

littlecj

Xper 5 Age: 40

How does being "too busy" affect dating or being in a relationship?

I've heard too often that people are "too busy" to be dating, or be in a relationship. (I'm going to say my definition of "dating," which is when people are going out and getting to know someone who may be a...

StarsInTheEyes

Xper 7 Age: 35

Religion & Spirituality

Do you think the loneliness pandemic could be better worded as an emptiness pandemic?

I have people that I believe are secretly lonely because they are always posting about their concerns or hard work online as if they need an audience to pay attention to them. I used to be needy for attention to, in my...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Does anyone text with repeating letters (such as "Hiiiiiii" or "ohhhhhh") and is not desperate, not emotionally unstable, not creepy, etc?

Does anyone text with repeating letters (more than 6 of the same letter) and is not desperate, not needy, not emotionally unstable, not a stalker, not creepy, not a criminal? Or does anyone know someone who texts with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Should I break up with him or am I overreacting?

My boyfriend leaves on long trips that he says will last a 3 weeks but goes on for months. When first started dated 5 months into the relationship he said he'd be leaving for a 3 week trip , a month cane asked when he'd...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Will I get her back after being needy?

I’ve been with my girl over a year. She say that I was the best thing that happened to her relationship wise. We had a disagreement cause she wanted me to purpose to here within a year. After that, we’ve been off and on....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he subconsciously manipulating me?

My husband has really high anxiety. Refuses meds, so we try natural remedies. Every weekend, it seems to be a new crisis with him: car, mental, body troubles. In these moments he’s very needy and wants me to soothe him to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Is expressing that I am too attached to my friends makes me look needy?

I moved recently to New city I spent 2 months without making any friends Then I made a group friends , for 3 months We were inseparable we were meeting every week I began to say openly that I am very attached this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

What's the best way to deal with a needy guy friend?

Ok, so I have this friend I've known since school. He's just hit 40, I'm in my late thirties. We're both male. He constantly messages me every day, most of the time its about mundane texts; "What you up too?" "I'm just...

darthc00ki3

Xper 1 Age: 41

We’ve been on 4 dates, we’ve had sex, she seems interested… but she takes 3-4 days to reply to text sometimes. Am I being too needy or is that not ok?

Says it all there really, but yeah we have such lovely dates and have both said so to eachother. We kiss, we hold hands, we laugh and giggle. When she does reply they are usually good replies continuing the convo. But god...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

After a breakup I was too needy and blew her phone begging, she blocked me after a month but has called me with different no. twice in 4 month?

Anonymous

(25-29)