Boyfriend busy emotionally unavailable?

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My boyfriend is going through divorce (not your typical he’s been emotionally done for years only stayed for kids).. anyway he is trying to fix up new place for us and kids who don’t know about me yet until it’s final due to state law and ex wife could take everything he’s focused on getting things done with house to get power and passing code so he is constantly in his own world and doesn’t seem as focused on me since trying to get everything ready with house, working, and not to mention divorce (joint custody he gets them only every other weekend) and has spent a lot of money on buying land and house to live. Maybe I’m insecure and anxious I know I am but he is busy and won’t use term of endearment or say I love you or have time at night for me like used to. He used to be more affectionate but still is but stressed out easier than usual and just feel like doesn’t think of me as often because of life stuff. I know he needs me more than I need him right now with all going on but I worry he’s tired of me or something when doesn’t kiss me or hug me or text me something sweet. If I mention it it turns into argument bc he says I have said that and complain but he’s doing best he can and does all those things and he does but sometimes I feel like insecure when no sweet emoji or word or in a text or have to go to him first for kiss or tell him I love you first. I think it’s temporary due to major life events but just looking for suggestions. I feel like can’t focus but on one thing at a time and right now it’s not me. Am I too needy

imtiaz45 · Answer

If your boyfriend is emotionally unavailable and frequently busy, it's essential to communicate openly about your feelings and concerns. Express your need for emotional connection and understand his perspective. Explore whether external factors contribute to his emotional unavailability. Establishing clear communication can help identify potential solutions or compromises. If his emotional unavailability persists and causes distress, consider evaluating the compatibility and health of the relationship. Seek support from friends, family, or a counselor to navigate these challenges. Ultimately, both partners should feel emotionally fulfilled and supported for a relationship to thrive.

boggboss · Answer

The issue is u decided to get with a guy that was in a complicated situation so yes I would say u are being too needy as it clear he can do what u would expect because u are not the priority atm

kingmaker21 · Answer

You should stay away from this type of drama n headache...

Boyfriend busy emotionally unavailable?

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