(I'm going to say my definition of "dating," which is when people are going out and getting to know someone who may be a potential partner, but they're not in a relationship.)
A lot of people are busy, and there are people who have full-time job and kids to raise, and they are maintaining their marriages, not just relationships or dating.
What aspect (s) of being busy affect any of these?
I think I can't understand this because I would've been understanding and wouldn't be needy for attention all the time if I were in a relationship with someone.
Therefore, I have not understood how people think they need to be not busy to be dating or be in a relationship? I need to hear different perspectives to understand.