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Many men are afraid to approach girls they don’t know, and women almost never do it; it’s very rare. I used to be scared too but in high school I had a social environment, so I could easily meet girls by finding common ground in classes, and since I was good looking and successful, it was easy. In fact, most of the time, they were the ones who came to talk to me.

When I went to university for engineering, the number of girls decreased a lot. I stayed without a girlfriend for a long time. I got tired of this situation, so one day I approached a random girl I liked in the library, found an excuse to start talking, gave her a compliment, and got her Instagram. While doing this, I was so stressed my hand was shaking when I gave her my phone. But I succeeded it felt like I had unlocked a new skill in flirting.

I’m curious can you cold approach? And are you comfortable doing it?

I think for most people, skydiving creates less stress than cold approaching.

There's this guy I know... he is married to a woman. She is very average looking. She has told him about her past relationships...

He has now observed that she is still in touch through text/WhatsApp/calls with one of her ex who was already married back then. She sends him romantic messages/ YouTube shorts etc... and texts him late night/very early morning.

He says he doesn't really like her anyway but still married her.. he doesn't like her looks and now he doesn't have sex with her anymore.

What can he do? Whose fault is it?