Search Results: love or friendship

I fell in love with a friend who rejected me. How long should I wait before trying to reconnect without feeling like i'm stalking her?

So I basically fell hard for a co worker through the summer. I didn't mean to, but I really fell for her. She immediatly noticed my crush even tho she had someone, and we agreed to remain friends, but because of my...

FrenchBassist

Xper 3 Age: 35

Relationships

Women, Don't Try To Change Him, He'll Change Himself If He Loves You

Someone asked me about a week ago how did men change after being marred for many years. So I thought about this long for a bit and I couldn't come up with a clear answer at that moment. So after some thinking and jotting...

humanearth

Master Age: 58

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Should I give up on liking him?

This guy slid into my dms a little over a month ago and we've been talking everyday ever since. He told me I'm the most genuine person he's ever met, with a pure heart. He's told me how much he loves my personality and my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Plan of action after rejection?

So recently I was rejected by a girl and it was pretty crushing, to say the least. She said she'd like to continue our friendship, but we were never super close to begin with. I only go to know her through work and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Im in love with my best friend?

How do you approach this? im completely hook line and sinker! My gut instinct tells me he feels the same, accidental touches, eye contact, and just a slight shift in his behaviour around me to almost nervous. everyone who...

Blonde42

Xper 3 Age: 45

Guy's Behavior

Why does my best guy friend treat me like his girlfriend, but says we're just friends?

My best friend and I have been friends for a long time now, and recently he started showing affection towards me and acting like we’re dating. We’re very comfortable with each other and I mean REALLY comfortable. We would...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do you overcome the feeling of being invalidated by people you trusted?

I reconnected with my friend after a long time where we hadn’t seen each other. For the first time in my life I was beginning to process what I had been through in my life and at that moment I needed a true friend. I had...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I kinda rejected him. Now I feel waves of sadness. Do I miss him or just his attention?

I met a guy online. We talked for 2 months. First it was friendship, then we started to flirt lightly, more and more. We were in contact all day, everyday and night. We met with a group of friends and spend time alone...

Kellieee

Xper 2 Age: 30

Relationships

Does my ''ALL OR NOTHING'' logic makes sense?

I've been with my boyfriend (we're not doing cohabitation) for nearly 10 months now. He knows very well I'm looking for commitment and to have kids, not ''oh the passion, oh the beautiful butterflies in the stomach, oh...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I feel guilty about myself?

I considered him as my friend. He considered me as his girlfriend. But he never said me that he loves me. But expected me to understand it. And he expected me to be loyal with him. He felt I broke his rules by having...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do girls hold a guys arm as friendly gesture?

Okay my friendship might have changed from friend to a guy who I can date. Right? I mean she did hold my arm in a public area when our mutual friend was coming to us, which kinda was weird, am I in a love triangle 🤣, cuz...

Stickykuza

Xper 4 Age: 23

Should I just go for it?

So, I'm deeply completely in love with a friend (a man) He doesn't know. I'm 99% sure i've no chance with him... and that hurts... but, holding back how i love him is killing me inside.. i need to tell him come what may....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Will we get back together or not? Any opinions?

Me and my girl recently broke up because we both have an important upcoming entrance exam coming , well it was only half of the reason to break up ( we both are really attached to each other and decided to be friends) we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

What should I do for the long weekend if I’m in college? Should I try going on a hiking expedition with my friends or should I do things more locally?

I’m really not sure how I want to spend my three day weekend. There is this hike I could do that’s a one hour drive away. So I could aim to be there around eleven with my friends and still give us enough time to plan...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

Relationships

I can't stop thinking about someone I was in love with 15 years ago (and haven't spoken to in 10 years) - what do I do?

So... I was 16 at the time, and I had a huge crush on my best friend. By the end of our friendship (when I was 21, nearly 10 years ago) I was completely in love with him. When we were 16 years old, he confessed that he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Delayed Vengence. Guys, Why do you think he changed his mind?

I did something awful. I was in a dying relationship (no sex, no cuddling just living together) and I started seeing someone new before ending my relationship. I was with the new guy 8 months or so and he said he loved me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I unlove someone 🙁?

I'm in love with a guy friend. I thought he felt the same way , but he doesn't. Since telling him how I feel, he's distanced himself. I miss his friendship so much. How can I unlove him?😧🙁

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

Is it wrong to turn down an offer to be my friend's wedding photographer?

I'm an amateur photographer, I typically do street photography/photography of buildings etc. My friend knows this and was struggling to find a photographer for his wedding, so he asked me. I would love to do this...

Anonymous

(25-29)