I've been with my boyfriend (we're not doing cohabitation) for nearly 10 months now. He knows very well I'm looking for commitment and to have kids, not ''oh the passion, oh the beautiful butterflies in the stomach, oh you're my love, only to end up breaking up and wasting my time'' BS. I want ALL OR NOTHING. If it's ALL and we end up forming a family, good. If it's ''l love you but have to break up but hey we can be friends'' then it's BS and I'll happily show him the door and get rid of him. We're not friends. I'm aiming for a life commitment, not friendship nor temporarily relationships.
I already wasted my time once. He kept saying I'm the love of his life but refused to progress with his promise of already sealing the deal and having a child with me. If you refuse to commit then it means everything you ever said was a lie and nope, I'm not the love of your life.
This to me is the same thing as if a manager was telling his employee ''Oh you're the most trusted and best worker in our company, so helpful, you would be a great supervisor, oh you're so great but nope, I'm sorry I can't promote you, not yet, you're not ready.
Then by logic sense you're not the best worker and you're getting BS. Same thing in the relationship. My logic is nope, you don't love me (you're full of BS) at all if you won't commit to me. Does my logic make sense?
