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Search Results: turn offs for a guy
What make a men single until 40+ ? he doesn't want me and didn't let me go for 5 years?
I know this men for 5 years He was 36y/o smart successful kinda handsome has a good job stable financially and a straight man but he was and still single until 41 I don't say I am a catch and perfect but I am ok...
Anonymous
(36-45) He started off being so nice and now is mean?
At first this guy was talking and so nice to me. Randonly 1 day he blocked me. and now is being mean and sent me another mean text. How do guys start out so nice then turn mean out of nowhere?
Anonymous
(25-29) Girl girls legs?
When passing by a girl. I feel like the legs can tell you a lot about the girl. It shows if she takes care of herself and I find it super attractive. When a girl have beautiful legs. But lately it's been very difficult to...
Anonymous
(36-45) When a guy is turned off, is there ever another chance?
A guy says he's turned off does that mean you never have another chance? or is there hope if he stops being angry at some point?
BellaB8466
Xper 5 Age: 25 Girls, is it true that the guy should give minimal effort and the girl should chase him?
I often hear women and girls get turned off when a man or guy admits his feelings to her or pursues her. I guess the rule of thumb is, guys and men should NOT pursue females and a female should pursue him. Now when I say...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you get over someone you are still in infatuated with?
I met this guy back in March we hit it off really well, he swept me off of my feet and made himself seem like the perfect guy for me. (Turns out he was just a player only after one thing) We recently ended things because...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I a shallow/shitty person?
I am 28 and a single mum of a 4 year old girl. I’ve broken up with her dad due to being left alone most of the times after our baby was born. He had to go out and earn money to keep a roof over our head. But he also went...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, What kind of Instagram stories do you like to see from girls?
Besides her selfies, what other things do you like to see? Also, do you get turned off when she posts stories quite often (after 2-3 days)?
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you find it a turn off when someone has children already with another person?
If the kids father died or something tragic like that, then maybe I could see an exception, but I don't want anybody's baby daddy drama, and it's just weird to be with someone with children with another guy.
Anonymous
(36-45) I just turned 18 and I can not longer use being a minor to ward off creeps. How can I stop older men from speaking to men or following me?
Since I was around 14 I've been catcalled by adult men some of which knew my age and didn’t care and others who just assumed I looked older. It’s not even teenage boys, 95% of guys my age know never to follow or shout...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girls, If you really wanted to hook up with a guy and he originally asked you out on a traditional date would you rather have him just ask you over?
So I’ve been chatting up a girl I met online for 2 weeks. She’s real and verified. We talked on the phone and everything matches up. I was teasing, funny and flirty in my messaging but never brought up sex. She also...
Anonymous
(36-45) Cutting contact with toxic friend. Should I tell him I'll cut contact or just do it?
I used to be friends with a guy from a mutual friend group. We often went to do things with the same group and spoke often. After a while I noticed that he kept sending flirty messages and double/triple texts with gifs...
Anonymous
(25-29) Friend turned lovers or just a rebound?
This guy had reached out to me several months ago in a friendly bet which ended up allowing us to talk and hang out several times. Over the last several weeks we have begun to open up more and the flirting seemed to be...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it just me who finds it sort of unattractive when hearing guys in public professional places make sexual comments?
I took a liking to this guy I work with I overheard him talking to another guy co worker. We were in our small break room. The other guy co worker was speaking to him about a girl planting a baby on him. The guy I like...
Egyptiannn
Xper 4 Age: 30 What is going on this with guy from my past?
We were never officially in a relationship but we dated on and off when we were teenagers to mid 20s. We always kept in touch until he moved away and met someone else. Everything was fine for a while and I tried to move...
Anonymous
(30-35) I messed up with someone I am interested in. How can I get back on his good side?
I started a new job at the end of the year. It's in a warehouse. There's this guy at work who I think is possibly interested but I'm not 100% sure. When I first started, I remember seeing him but I didn't know who he was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do women who consider dating to marry overlook physical attraction in a guy?
I'm quite handsome, I am fit, intelligent, but I'm not that masculine. I have some 'feminine hobbies' and I am a bit shy. I'm wondering whether my atitudine could be a turn off for such a woman. In terms of values, we...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Turn on and offs for older men (35-60)?
I'm a younger woman and I want to know the turn ons and offs for older men
PrincessKatieXoXo
Xper 2 Age: 22 How do I know if they’re worth my time dating?
I just met this guy in December and he seems really nice. Easy to talk to, remembers the little things, and we have a lot of the same interests. He does vape and drink which I don’t do so it’s a bit of a turn off with...
Anonymous
(18-24) Dating Tips for Women
I've written my dating tips for guys already, so to follow up, here are my tips for women. As I mentioned with the last post, with any advice, take it or leave it! You don't have to believe as I do, it's just opinions...
Anonymous
(36-45) 