I often hear women and girls get turned off when a man or guy admits his feelings to her or pursues her. I guess the rule of thumb is, guys and men should NOT pursue females and a female should pursue him. Now when I say pursue, I don't mean she plans the dates, she always approaches, etc. A guy should initiate first contact for convo, a guy should plan a normal date. After that it's all up to the girl or woman in my opinion. Because if a guy starts messaging her more and this and that, it looks needy and desperate. Girls/women who pursue guys/men is better in my opinion because it's like a dance and reciprocating those feelings in return.
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Girls, is it true that the guy should give minimal effort and the girl should chase him?
