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To be perfectly honest the guy creeps me out and is often kinda inappropriate in how he talks to me when he meets me in the store. I also have seen the way he leers at other young women in their teens and twenties, he's around 50 something. He was going past my house, he lives maybe 10 houses away. I saw him out walking when I collected the mail from the post box and walked back into my home and he followed right behind me and as I tried to close the door he put his hand on it stopping me, he apologised and asked if he could come in and use the bathroom. Warning bells went off in my head, I told him no and he tried to push his way in as though he was entitled to enter my home but I told him if he didn't piss off I'd call the police and he left calling me a bitch. I called my husband who drove home and went straight to his door and he called the police. We've a door bell cam so the police who were sympathetic and suspicious of him didn't press charges. Some in the neighbourhood say it was unneighbourly and they've let him use theirs in the past no problem while others say I did right. I was raised to better be safe that sorry in these things.

I spent 2 years with a guy who initially said he didn’t want a relationship, but we eventually fell in love. He treated me like his girlfriend—introducing me to friends and family, celebrating birthdays with surprises, traveling together, being deeply intimate, and talking every day. He listened to my problems and helped me through tough times. I truly believed we had something real, and from the outside, it seemed like the perfect relationship.

But over time, he started pulling away, prioritizing friends and family over me. He bluntly told me, “I won’t marry you,” and then left for Iraq, saying he’d been honest from the start about going back to his country. When I asked about trying long-distance, he called me a burden, criticized me for my family issues, and even said he had to tell me what to do about a cockroach in my condo. He claimed I should have understood when he said he wouldn’t marry me. I begged him to reconsider, but he quickly moved on, even saying we could still be “friends on Facebook.”

He’s already back on dating apps, seemingly unaffected by our breakup. Now I’m wondering—was I being used? Was I wrong to think we had something real? What kind of person moves on so easily?