Search Results: after break up

My boyfriend is too secretive and it makes me anxious. What should I do?

My boyfriend and I have only been together a couple months. I am well aware that we got together rather soon after he broke up with the girl he left back in his home city. I don't mind this as I am generally a rather...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How come a guy waits for someone and then breaks up with me?

READ THE DETAILS so this man broke up with me after a girl just pops up out of nowhere. I asked him about her and he wouldn’t tell me nothing. I later find out he was married and now they expecting a first child. He told...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I just embarrassed the shit out of myself. how do I recover from this?

I reached out to my ex for the first time after the break up 4 months ago. He came on my mind and I missed him. I also just wanted closure smh. When I called him he picked and said who is this? I said it’s me and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was in a 10 year affair with an avoidant, now he’s ended it out of the blue?

So there’s no room here to show my remorse, but it’s there. I’ve been part of a 10 year affair for 10 years. It wasn’t sexual until the end part of the relationship. He’s an avoidant, which means it was never a romantic...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did this guy block me because I didn’t open or read his message for 3 days on Facebook?

For context, I don’t know him that well, we are from the same town so we’ve known who each other are since we were teens and so I’ve seen him around for years and plus he’s friends with my cousin. Him and I are not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can cohabitation be a SCAM for women that want commitment?

After reading through several questions here of marriage being a trap, now I would like to speak from the other side of women stuck in the ''we've been living together for 7 years, why isn't he proposing'' perpetual...

Shelly2002

Xper 5 Age: 24

Found ex on dating app?

Hey everyone.. so I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago on the account of emotional cheating ( he was talking to other women on apps behind my back which he justified as not cheating since there was nothing physical)....

Anonymous

(25-29)

An ex said "why don't you walk away from me"?

Here is the thing I have this ex I met back in 2022 when i was freshmen year we started a situationship thing for like 3 month but I have avoidant attachment and when he asks me to be together I start pushing him and we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is my ex boyfriend suddenly apologizing and wanting to propose after dumping him?

I left my boyfriend after 3 years of it going nowhere. I can't afford another year because I'll be 27 by then. The last words he said were what made me dump him in that moment. He said that I'm not ready for commitment...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why do society say short women are more feminine than tall women?

Like who says society is right? Tall women aren’t manly looking. Just because a woman is tall doesn’t mean she’s masculine looking. Even if she didn’t have curves or whatever she’s still a woman. I feel like I’m going to...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Why does a girl stays with someone that won't commit while a man would ditch her?

''Oh we've been together for 7 years but my boyfriend said he needs more time, when is he going to propose, should I wait till next year'' ''Oh my boyfriend told me I'm not ready for marriage, oh what do I do now, how to...

SeleneSecret

Xper 6 Age: 19

My girlfriend brole up with me and I am crushed?

I messed up with everything and I thought we could work through things but she ended it. I send her a text 1 week after the break up that I want to fix things and apologies if I came across in a bad way. That i still care...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

How can me and my partner heal our abusive marriage?

I am of the opinion that marriages should be worked on and salvaged at all costs where possible. Of course there are circumstances that would make a marital relationship too far gone and I don’t judge one bit. However, I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Do you think goodwill would fire me if I continued to work very slowly?

I've been working at goodwill for my court ordered community service. It's been going okay. What I normally to is help with sorting donations people drop off in the back. I think I've been doing alright. I felt like I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you only appreciate things after you lose them?

Recently broke up with a guy and still can't shake it off. it was soooo cozy with him

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why do people avoid me since I’ve lost my mother?

Ever since my mom passed away, most people avoided me. I mean come on. The people said they will be there for me disappeared. I’ve lost friends because they didn’t want a “miserable bitch” around them. I don’t always talk...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Friend never interacts with my child when he comes to my house?

My ex now friend never interacts with my child while we were together he wouldn’t really say much to her I didn’t say anything at the time because he would mainly come over while she was sleep but when she was up he would...

Anonymous

(25-29)