How come a guy waits for someone and then breaks up with me?

[Anonymous]

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so this man broke up with me after a girl just pops up out of nowhere. I asked him about her and he wouldn’t tell me nothing. I later find out he was married and now they expecting a first child. He told me they been together since 2014 and that he been waiting on her to finish her government contract. He told me that he wasn’t planning on staying with nobody or seriousness with anyone. He told me when we first met, it was love at first sight. I always felt that he was waiting on somebody because of how he been acting towards me.

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I just feel used

[Jackblue]

The guy was a total jerk, I wonder if she knows how he used you while waiting for her.

[spartan55]

Because he used you for sex?

[Asker]

And sex wasn’t even long either. He always had to leave or start arguments with me intentionally

[spartan55]

Sounds like a great time. 🙄

[Asker]

I don't know why he didn’t tell me this

[spartan55]

Why would he? Then he would have lost his free 🥧 pie.

[Asker]

Still he could have saved me the hurt

[spartan55]

Reread my last reply... let it sink in.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s sad. Sounds like he really loves you but he’s staying with her out of duty and because they have a kid together.

[Asker]

He was with her long before because I found out about her. I just didn’t know who she was. When she came home that’s when they continued what they had together. He told me they never broke up and he’s not leaving her. I didn’t know they were married

[Asker]

He told me he was in love with me and he think about me when he goes to sleep and wake up…well that was a lie because he looked at me as if I was her but I wasn’t. He remarried her. I asked him why didn’t he just tell me this from the beginning

[Asker]

They were together for all the years.. they never broke up. I found out more about her and he’s protective over her

[Asker]

The way he been hiding stuff from me he didn’t love me he just used me

[Emmytexrex]

He likes you but he loves his kid more

[Asker]

Huh?